And those factors today, I think, have kind of confused this whole concept of love. It is important, I think, very much to recognize human relationships more so because I think they're very complex, yet they're very simple. If you cannot handle a relationship properly at all times, that means that you're not setting your needs well, you're not setting your boundaries well, and you're not balanced somehow
Nidhin George 🔷
@geo_rhymes · 4:39
And therefore, instead of loving the other person, we end up attacking the other person. Imagine a scenario where you meet someone, you start falling for them and as you get to know them, both of you express the love that you have for each other. And after a while, the same love becomes lost. You start fighting with each other. You start attacking each other. People start blaming their partners for not being available for them, for not being there for them. How can love disappear?
Hey, I think you explained it really well. Love can only be unconditional if we are complete in ourselves and we have no expectations from the other person. And yes, the love that gradually dies was probably not love in the true sense. It was maybe attraction. I think we first have to love ourselves to really truly love somebody else. If we are not happy with them, then we'll always be looking out for somebody who can maybe help us feel better about ourselves or complete us
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Nidhin George 🔷
@geo_rhymes · 1:00
You. Wow. That was profound. Absolutely. I mean, I am in agreement with what you said about learning to love yourself. And it seems you may have discovered that elusive secret people go searching their whole life for. There was a point of time when this question, this particular question will I ever find love? Will I ever find true love? Was such a loved noise in my head that it was always disappointing just thinking about that
aamna singh
@aamy · 1:39
Thank you guys for your wonderful thoughts. I truly agree, in pieces, of course, with both of you. Since the engagement came from you guys, I would just simply add that indeed, it's very important to keep in mind that just dive in, go within. That's where you find true love. That's where you find unconditional love. That's where you feel that you complete. Right? But we are imperfect beings