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Cdr Bimal Raj
@cdrbimalraj · 19:43

Suicide - Choosing Death over Life

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There is no way you will be able to prepare them academically for something in the future that doesnt even exist today, but your love and belief in them will make them confident adults with a high self esteem and they will be able to adapt to future scenarios focus on your relationship with them and not on their grades and marks. Remember that young people these days romanticize death and suicide, and some even consider those kids to be brave to take that step

The number of student suicides in India is rising at an alarming rate. It is a burden like no other when a child chooses it! We need to talk about it

@RakeshKumar2023
Rakesh Kumar
@RakeshKumar2023 · 1:39
Whatever life is there, what type of life you get, whatever you get, you just should be thankful and you should just do struggle. Everybody is doing and all kind of information and help and support from government. You have given in this well cast. So thank you. Thank you very much
@cdrbimalraj
Cdr Bimal Raj
@cdrbimalraj · 0:44

@RakeshKumar2023

Thank you so much Rakesh Ji for your comment. Yes, it's true, whatever you shared. And when it comes to children, if you are a parent or if we are parents, one of the main things that we need to teach our children is about learning to deal with failures and setbacks. Unfortunately, these days there's a lot of instant gratification that is encouraged for the children so they are not mentally equipped to handle setbacks when it happens in their lives. So thank you for your comment
@Qyra
Q H
@Qyra · 3:50
You know, if you tell them the same thing, maybe that will be less impactful if somebody else tell them. So it would be good that if kids should have a mentor, not from the immediate family, that person may be somebody, you know, professional mentor or let's suppose somebody from your friend's family. And there should be regular counseling there. You know, even we at this age, we need an anchor in our life and we barely listen to our family
@pocketofstories
Sarita pramod
@pocketofstories · 0:25
Hi, Commander Bimal Raj. I heard the prompt and it was a very tough topic that you talked about, and it's a very well researched information that you shared. I hope it reaches to a lot of viewers and it leaves a positive impact. So thank you for sharing
@cdrbimalraj
Cdr Bimal Raj
@cdrbimalraj · 0:19

@pocketofstories

Thank you very much Sharika for your appreciation. Yes, I do really hope and pray that it reaches a lot of people because a lot of people need to hear this and understand different aspects of it. Thank you so much for your appreciation
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Cdr Bimal Raj
@cdrbimalraj · 0:43
@neha_97
Neha Dondapati
@neha_97 · 5:00
Absolutely. You know, like, I feel that it is harder to live than it is to die. All it takes is one instance to choose death over life. But to be able to tolerate all the pain, suffering, misery and everything, you know, to take all of that and convert it into some form of courage, strength, you know, or something, some kind of resilience that shapes you or forms you into a even more stronger person or a better person, let's say
@neha_97
Neha Dondapati
@neha_97 · 4:59
And also before, what used to happen was I used to take everything personally, meaning that whatever would happen, I used to take it to heart and think, you know, that nothing good is happening or everything is wrong with my life and all that thing. But now I'm like, simply detached, as in, like, I don't attach myself to whatever outcome it may be
@neha_97
Neha Dondapati
@neha_97 · 2:23
So if you can be in that state of mind instead of looking forward to something, if you think that it has already happened, you have already done it, you have already felt it, you have, you know, already processed all that, then you won't be stressed about it. You won't need find the need to put in any kind of energy, effort or anything into it. It will be like a cake walk, you know, it will be smooth, it will be effortless
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