The times when I feel insecure about these things are when I am in the presence of the other three attachment styles, to be honest, and even then, that's not always the case. But I am just becoming aware of that and, you know, my eye is just opened and now I'm going to notice more and observe more and report less and just continue to grow and thrive in my mission to shift the perspective, to shift perspectives. Thank you for listening
Blair Redmond
@blairbearing · 0:18
Lastly, this was just a short little quiz, and it's really just my introduction into probably a more thorough assessment of my attachment style
Isoellen Writes
@Isoellen · 0:10
I need links. Linksy, linksy, links, links. I'm curious. I want to take the quiz. Do you have a link? Thank you
Blair Redmond
@blairbearing · 0:05
Thank you for the reminder. I'm getting better. I'm getting better. Thank you. Thank you
Isoellen Writes
@Isoellen · 1:05
I love it. Thank you so much, because I just listened again to your swell and I love your confidence. I just want to commend you on your, you know, I don't need to apologize for me to anyone. I'm secure in who I am. And maybe that's why you're secure in your attachment style, because you know your worth. And whatever the self criticism is, man, you know your worth. You know you're valuable. You know you matter
Blair Redmond
@blairbearing · 2:30
But I will say this, as a person who feels this way moving, it doesn't make moving in society any easier just because I know who I am, because I'm still meeting people who aren't really sure of who they are and I'm still having these interactions. And a lot of my past relationships have been with people who were that. And me choosing to be in a relationship with some of these people, it made my life very difficult, and I'm aware of that now