But what made me post this podcast is are we taking the same action for the same mistake if it is done by a man? If you dwell into past or not past, let us conduct a survey right away. And if you conduct a survey in 50 houses, I can bet on that 46 to 47 men might be indulged in such an act. And there a woman is supposed to keep her mouth shut. Why so? My first question is why so?
Hi. I came across this news a few days back and was appalled to say the least. I can't imagine how a domestic case of disharmony and a turbulent relationship between a couple has been made out to be such a heated topic for debate, for national debate and the extent of the smear campaign against a successful woman. I'm sure this is not the first case of infidelity in the country where the wife has exercised her choice to be with someone else
Sreeja V
@Wordsmith · 3:09
Women are forced into marriages in India and asked to set aside their ambitions in pursuit of this relationship. Have children do that, do this and prioritize everything else except for your growth, right? Professionally. And once she does decide to embark on that journey, it is all the credit is all put at the husband's feet, saying, yeah, he accommodated her ambitions. He has been funding
Meenu Kaur
@tailored979 · 3:56
This is what we all are blessed with or bestowed upon with what we call it as intuition or 6th sense or whatever. But those men are spared. No one even talks about them. And here I as I already said, being in a wedlock and then to getting involved with someone, okay, our Indian society does not promote it. So I have no objection on that. But the objection which I have is why a woman being punished?
Meenu Kaur
@tailored979 · 3:25
Then the second thing which we support is we always say, I mean joby, jewelry, hair, whatever it is, it's all it's going to help the man of her life, right? To kia ye woman ki funding nahihe but as a koi acknowledged naikarta so just be I just have a request with this world to start treating people equally. There shouldn't be any difference between the sacrifices mentioned made by a man and a woman
aamna singh
@aamy · 2:27
Hi, Tani. Thank you so much for the invite. And honestly, as much as I'd like to comment on the Jothi Moriar case, I've been very clear in Blind here that it's like expressing an opinion about an extramiral affair. And the social media intervention is not called for, frankly, because A, it does not reflect a balanced perspective. And it's like giving sweeping generalizations. We are nobody to judge anybody, right?
Rohan RR
@SpecialMission · 2:22
And after 18 or after 20 years old, people outside the world also treat them the same because they have been molded in certain way. We can't really hate our parents, which is we would seem bad if we hate our parents. That's the society norm as well. So we try to put this hatred towards someone and it could be our life partners or it could be our children, or it could be strangers going around
Meenu Kaur
@tailored979 · 3:58
So if I try to redefine my perception or if I try to redefine my definition of being what a happy married life is, why am I not given I mean, why is the other person not given that freedom? Why is the other person always dragged into allegations and this and that and especially when it's a female, right? The men also do the same thing, but they are excused by saying like, men are like that and women shouldn't be doing this