And you also might be experiencing some craziness with screens in your home with your kids, whether that be with the phones, video games, iPads, TV, whatever it might be nowadays. There's so many screens in our lives, and I am definitely not anti technology. Matter of fact, I make a living off of technology and love games. I love TV, I love all those things
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 0:50
Hey, Steph, I just want to welcome you to Swell. I just reselled your Swell and I just don't know there are so many parents that would welcome this conversation that will drop into your podcast and also want to be in conversation with you here because there's never enough conversation around screen time and and just the whole sort of ecosystem of discipline and love and exposure and sort of creating structure and boundaries and all those yummy things and so happy that swallow is a good form for you to do that
Aayan B
@aayanisms · 3:36
And so parenting has a completely different connotation in many other parts of the world. Just one last point was about the header that you said is about powerful parents. My question also is do you want parents to be powerful or do you want parents to be more supportive? So that would be my two or three things to think about. Just
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 2:34
I look forward to your small contributions. I am about to on my business instagram put out my call for 2023 for speaking engagements and guest podcast invites. So if you ever decide in the future to have guests on your podcast, I welcome the opportunity and we can definitely talk offline about that. Welcome to Swell and enjoy the format
Stephanie Dove
@stephydove · 2:20
You sound like a very, very intelligent woman. And so anyway, I'm so glad and so grateful for you taking the time to reply to my very first well, ever. I'm so excited. And I also love your goal of helping people who have lived through domestic abuse. It's something that is a huge part of my heart. I have a dear best friend who just recently escaped a very serious domestic abuse situation over five years
Stephanie Dove
@stephydove · 0:50
Okay, so first off, I don't know what it is. Is it like a thing with this app? Like, everybody who gets on has a great voice? You have a great voice, too, so and then the other thing is just thank you so much for taking the time to respond. I really appreciate that. I'm super excited. I haven't even made my next one one yet because I was on a trip whenever I initially started my Swell account
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 2:53
There are times I will slow it down depending on if I want to make sure I really understand a specific point or if the person speaks English as a second language. But what happens, I don't know what type of device you have. I have an iPhone. When it plays, what happens is there's a play bar at the bottom. What you see is just the face of the playbar
Stephanie Dove
@stephydove · 0:40
And I didn't know there's private messaging, but like I said, I'm going to get over here, I'm going to figure it out, and I'm hoping tonight, once I get home, I can settle down and do my second swell ever and actually tell a couple of my stories or maybe just one story per swell. And I just saw that I can follow you. I and so I'm learning. I'm still learning. But thank you again
Stephanie Dove
@stephydove · 4:43
But if we can have more conversations about seeing our children and about how we were parented and I'm really curious about the source of this. Is the FOMO because they felt like they missed out? Or is it more so because I'm sure it's a combination of all of it. But is it because they feel like they missed out or because they feel like they missed out? Or that their child is that they're not being a good parent if they don't make their child into a prodigy?
Stephanie Dove
@stephydove · 0:32
And I was like, cool. I didn't know how you could do that. So anyway, super fun. I appreciate you. Thank you for making me feel so welcome. I appreciate it. I will see you on the platform
Aayan B
@aayanisms · 4:38
They start depending on the support so much that once that support is taken off, then their independent ability to do something, to solve a complex problem or fight against the odds, become a big challenge. And so I'm seeing that trend emerge as well. So net of the story is, in my view, parenting is about opposites. There is no single pattern which says if you did these three things, then the result and output will be these predictable three things