@simrannnn
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 1:24

RELATIONSHIP

I have met people that maybe I can consider to get seriously but it's just not the right time for me. So my sister is in a relationship. Very serious and happy relationship, I think so it's been three years for them. So Vasha, can you share your experience in a relationship?
@Aishani
Aishani Chatterjee
@Aishani · 1:10
There might be compatibility issues, there might be misunderstandings, there might be so many problems. Right. But it doesn't mean that we degrade what we had, that we regret what we had and what we did with the other person. So, yeah, I think it's beautiful the way you see it, and I hope that you've you find yourself in a good place. You find yourself getting all that you wish for, and yeah, that's pretty much it
@bipashaa
Bipasha Sehrawat
@bipashaa · 1:56

@simrannnn

Obviously I don't say you are not a civilization, but I just listened to them and then I realized that I'm at a very good place. I don't want a relationship. And all you can experience part of that. So I'm going to ask Yuki what you feel ideal relationship should look like. See?
@simrannnn
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 1:38

@bipashaa

So yeah, I think from what I know of how you are in a relationship, I think we're pretty much same in this kind of situation. Like, I think we love our freedom, basically. Obviously another typical Indian house. We have gained it. We have gained our freedom. We will not allow anyone to just put us in a cage, according to me, as long as it doesn't cross his line
@bipashaa
Bipasha Sehrawat
@bipashaa · 1:36

@simrannnn

And we both are very angry. So at that time, we both consider we just step back and just calm down, then talk about it. So there are so many rules which you can also make according to your situation or according to your relationship. So I guess that would be the correct thing to say. I want to ask you maybe something very weird, self aware. What was that?
@simrannnn
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:42

@Aishani

Hi, Aishani. Thank you so much for replying on us. Well and yeah, I don't think it is always the one person that is wrong in a relationship. It can be neutral and it is. Sometimes it is. But people don't like to take dreams. If you have done mistakes, just take them for it, I think. I will not say I'm not the person because gain and mutual respect for each other. So that's what it is for me
@simrannnn
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 1:18

@bipashaa

Yeah, definitely. Weird relationship. Sophia, I can't believe like you have know who they are. The people we cannot relate to at all. I will say most of us of my friends are in a relationship that I will never look up to. Why? Those people love each other. You want to be together because you like that. It is not about you. To me don't wear this kind of clothes or don't go there. Don't go there
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@bipashaa
Bipasha Sehrawat
@bipashaa · 1:00

@simrannnn

As in don't give folks to others. I love you. Don't say I love you if you don't even mean it as well. Like I have heard I love you without even meaning. Try not to sell when you don't even need it
@bipashaa
Bipasha Sehrawat
@bipashaa · 0:34

@simrannnn

And also when you don't know key, what you want is like you have to make a relationship so and to make a sale maybe you have some traumas or unhealed issues. You should just take your time first then go in any relationship
@simrannnn
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:30

@bipashaa

Yeah, I mean, exactly. I think people should know what they want before getting into something so serious, like relationship. You know, relationship can be tough, so we should know, like, do you want a serious kind of relationship relationship, or we want casual. Before getting into something serious with someone and hurting their feelings, we should know what we feel, what we exactly feel, and what we want and expect from that relationship
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