Hello people. How are you all doing? Well, I have a question for you all today and that is are are are are are you emotionally available? Topic at the moment. Moment and for good reason. But what does it even mean? As I contemplate my own struggle with vulnerability, I have concluded that so much of what we crave in other is often what we crave in ourselves. When it comes to love, there isn't a single person who has not been scared in some way
Nikita Arora
@The_gyaaniKeeda · 2:09
I mean, that what makes a person emotionally unavailable is when you teach them that their emotions are not relevant or they have no sense. Like I've seen many people telling their kids to not be over dramatic or let's just say stop crying. Do you know about that habit of someone that slaps you when you cry and ask you to shut up in that way? The kid is basically so afraid to even cry in front of their parents
Palak Jain
@palakjain · 0:29
I personally feel that nowadays people are not emotionally available because they fear that even if they will be available and then they will connect to any person, then maybe after some time they leave and go leading to heartbreak of that one who has totally invested in the relationship. There could be other reasons as well, but I personally feel that this is the main one
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Shruti Singh
@Shruti_Singh · 0:44
And I really hope with no offense that I people around us who uses the term introvert just to defend themselves from being not so open actually realizes how fantasizing it is to feel. Thank you again for the appreciation and for applying
Shruti Singh
@Shruti_Singh · 1:12
We cannot just control things or we cannot predict what will happen. Instead we just should flow with it and it's high time for people to realize it because this is what life is all about. This is what humans are all good at. And if we even s***** this super power from us, I guess there would be nothing more exciting if we stop feeling for someone or having an attachment with anybody just because the Singh they might give some day