If we don't reach that destination, at least we have not wasted that journey. So we try to make everything very colorful. We are its life. Those people who get on a truck and they sing and they dance all their way throughout their journey, they feel happy, they try to help others, they try to connect with people. And I am not really talking about introverts and extroverts here. I'm talking about what we feel within
Kavita B
@kavitaseth22 · 3:08
Make the connection with good people don't leave your friends that are supportive all the time your dark times and this is the way we can spend our lives all colors we cannot forget to see and to spread colors for our whole life because it is the mind that is playing games with us. So keep your mind focused and concentrated always that the life main purpose for coming in this world is just not to attain a position or a destination but to enjoy the journey as well. Thank you. Bye
Anant Seth
@Anant12356 · 4:38
If I'm happy with you, I would show, okay, I'm happy. But if I'm sad, I would show I am sad. Like, I'm a very emotional person. You can say I'm a kind of extrovert. Yeah, earlier I was an introvert, but right now, I'm an extrovert. So, yeah, I can say that. But the major thing is, okay, everyone's perspective is different. I totally understand that
Swati Sharma
@Swatiselflove · 1:28
What kind of shade we want to give it to our lives, whether we want to add colors to it, whether we want people to see us as a more colorful person or we want to be known as a prophet of doom. So it all depends upon us. Life comes to us like life and how much we are able to live in that life, that's all up to us. How much we can extract life from various moments
shafali anand
@shafali · 2:29
And of course, we are all humans, so there are certain dark emotions which cloud our existence from time to time. For instance, the emotion of insecurity and uncertainty. So, yes, we should be doing the best we can. And, well, the thing that probably I have learned to understand over time is that we cannot expect people to be nice. We cannot expect people to understand all the time
shafali anand
@shafali · 5:00
Trauma is something which we all go through, some more than the others, some for longer periods than the others. But if we've been through a traumatic experience, usually we begin to change post that experience. We are different from what we used to be before the experience. And we are different in one clear way, which is we begin to question our pre trauma existence. We begin to ask ourselves, is this what we want to do with our lives?
shafali anand
@shafali · 1:44
We decide whether we want something to be very, very ugly, unhappy, sad, or whether we want to improve it slightly if we can. Well, it depends on the colors that we use, doesn't it? Honestly, I've come across people who tend to make life appear worse than it is for them. And I have also come across a lot of people who make life appear brighter than it is for them
Sreeja V
@Wordsmith · 1:45
And I think this comes by experience as you live life, your lived experiences teach you that often what we think or perceive as happiness, be it the destination, be it the result of all our efforts, right. Be it a promotion or an achievement or you being lauded by those around you after achieving a goal, that happiness is so quick to melt away. Right?
Anant Seth
@Anant12356 · 3:41
Why are you behaving like that in a particular manner? Why is a behavioral pattern like that? I want to understand human psychology. I want to understand what other people feel. That's right. To be honest and if I'm brutally honest, you sound like my mom. She's always like okay, everything happens for a reason. God, its life. A mutual plan for each and everyone. For us, whatever happens, happens for good. And I'm like, mom, no
It studies the way our thoughts affects our behaviors. It looks at the ways our brains interpret the signals they receive and how these interpretations affect what we do. It does this through language, the linguistic part of the neuro linguistic programming techniques. By examining how our brains process information, NLP techniques help us to look at our thoughts, feelings and emotions as things that we can control rather than things that passively happen to us
Last, but not the least, I would request each one of us to find the right frequency with which you perspective the life, be it gray or colorful. Find the right frequency with which you perceive the life you want to live. Positive thoughts. Positive thoughts with improve your frequency. That's the answer. Simple. Very simple. But difficult to invite and comprehend
shafali anand
@shafali · 4:23
But yes, I do like to speak from my heart, especially on Swell, because I consider Swell to be more of an informal platform where we can converse, where we can share our views and share our feelings. There is something that I want to say here. Probably I've given slightly incorrect impression. I am not a religious person, which is to say that I am not a person who would dogmatically continue to accept whatever is told to me. I am probably an agnostic