Questions around a quote on ❤️ by James Baldwin.

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Depending on what definition you're using, what context can we really compare being in love with somebody and how that made us feel and how we treated the person in that romantic relationship versus how we treat others in our lives? There's another question. Should we really do that? Treat a romantic partner like the way that we interact and love them? Should we treat other people with that same kind of love? There are the different greek terms for different types of love. Arrows

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Blair Redmond
@blairbearing · 4:44

@SeekingPlumb

I am a child of divorce, but my grandparents were married for over 50 years, and their marriage ended in death. And I did have examples of healthy marriages around me. And then I got older and started dating. And I remember a man telling me that I don't know what love is because my parents were divorced, and I was like, what? Those two are not the same
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@blairbearing

And I would say that I don't know that I've ever experienced being in love in the way that he seems to imply. But I do think that I can and have and do love people deeply in the way that you described of to their very being loving them. And so, on the one hand, we might say that his quote was to a certain audience, and maybe that doesn't fit me, but at the same time, we don't know that
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Blair Redmond
@blairbearing · 3:29

@SeekingPlumb

When I listen to my friends that have beautiful love stories and respectful relationships, they all said it wasn't this crazy uphill battle to be together, all this stress and strife and suffering and stuff that a lot of people are going through. So it. Thank you. Thank you so much. Your mind is beautiful, and I love having these conversations with
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