I love you but Im not in love with you /Thats me in college full of hope for the future unaware that in 5 years life is gonna change in a very big way
I think that chemistry, that pharmacy going on in our heads that's basically telling us this is something you should look into, not love. It can be lust. It can be some feelings of euphoria, but I think some people think that that's what love is. And that's not what love is. Absolutely not. You cannot feel like that every day. It might be something to look back on when you try to remember, you know what I mean?
I wish we could disrespect each other and move forward and put down the expectations, you know what I mean? The one ain't coming. I got some acceptance with that. And I'm not comparing no women that I'm meeting to a figment of my imagination anymore. So I'm ready to take this show on the road. Well, please help me with this. What does that mean? I love you, but I'm not in love with
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:46
And then now you're with somebody, and then a year or two down the road, you're like, oh, wait a minute. You are not who you said you were. You are not what I thought it was. And no, I don't want to stick it out with you, but when to me, I'm going to have to do a second one. Hold on
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:57
I can't wait for God to send my husband because I've learned so much about myself, about relationships. And I'm not rushing this next one. I'm going to let it unfold as it does because I know I'm going to be a lot better in this next one than I was before. Because this one's going to be the real thing. And it's not going to be infatuation. It's not going to be lust. It's not going to be none of that
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 2:44
And I don't think it's always a negative thing if she's serious and through the motions, you need to find out why, because your maturity level might change, too, when you realize her reasons. Okay, thank you so much for this. Well
And I think the only reason I didn't see it was because a situation never came up for me to see it that way. But I'm done with that. I'm done with that. But, yeah, she has said that to me one time and I'm like, that don't make no sense. And plus, I guess they say with men it's more like we're more practical or more either it is or it isn't
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 3:47
So if I could say anything to help today, I would say, and I know it's cliche, but say it's not you, it's me. Just look at it like that. For that situation, it wasn't you. It was her. And that's okay, because sometimes God moves stuff out of the way. You can't get through a brick wall. You got to go around it, over it, under it. You got to find a way to get through it
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:26
I didn't stick around as long as some people thought I should have. My first marriage. We were only married for two years, but he was addicted to drugs. One day I'm going to do a swell about that because it did a lot to me. And then the other marriage, we were married for five years, four years. We were married for four years. And one of those years, he didn't even live with me