To Vent or not to Vent - Putting limits on Venting !!
Sometimes it's a useful thing, it's a useful process. But we often overvalue the return of venting and misuse the process. At times we think it's helping, but sometimes it hurts our relationship, it hinders our growth and it hampers our emotion. So let's look at the downside of venting. Venting often denies personal responsibility. We vent about others, we don't complain about what we have done wrong. And the problem is that the negative situations are really one sided
Ah. Also, we need to put limits on venting, like who we are venting to when we are venting to. And is the person we are venting to trustworthy? Can he help us? He or she can help us. And when venting is replaced with praising, there can be changes in our life. So by regularly rehearsing what is good rather than what is bad, we can train our mind to seek the good
That is the unique way that I have found to vent out my emotions. Because what I noticed was the moment you start venting out your emotions to everyone, they utilize those points in order to put you in wrong situation sometimes or blame you for certain things which is not at all good. So it is something very important I feel, putting limits on venting
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 3:18
Now, that private person, unless you die hard know that what's said between you and her, you and him is not going anywhere. I just keep my business to myself. I might call my daughter and vent about work, but private life. I've learned to keep my private life to myself when it comes to my child because she's very protective
The Bookbot Theory
@Bookbot · 4:21
And so I paid a very heavy price for trusting people left, right, and center, till I actually eventually discovered writing. And I realized that this kind of venting, ranting, or even complaining sounds very safe and is perfect. Like, nobody knows what I write on those pages. Nobody needs to know. And I am very happy with that arrangement so much that even today, I have to get things off my mind. I need to write
Himanshi Thakur
@GreyMatter · 4:18
Hi Pragati, thanks a lot for inviting me to your wonderful swell. And I'm so glad that you brought this topic because I have experienced this so many times that whenever I'm going through something and I share it with my friends, I often end up getting more agonized and sadder than I was before. So it's important that we realize the impact on this venting and ranting thing that it has on us
And we are a byproduct of the company we keep. And having an inner circle is important because having an inner circle or a strategic inner circle is very important because then you are evolving yourself through the mindset of these inner circle of friends. One thing I have understood in life is that it is not easy in real life to climb up to the height of success in real life, not through the life of education, but in real life
Ankit Sharma
@BhukkhadNaama · 1:29
So if there is that person, yes, you can vent out or share it with him or her. They them. So it's like, in my opinion, it's not good to vent out. But yes, theory there should be a limit, and you have to be conscious enough that how you're doing it, by not hurting the other person as well. So that's the thing. Okay, thank you so much
The mystic
@The.mystic01 · 2:22
Only 10% are there, or even maybe less than 10% who lend their ears. So in place of venting in front of anyone or everyone, we must try to find the solution on our own. We must make ourselves mentally and emotionally strong. And when we find a right person, we can express our feelings. So that's all. I just want to say thank you for listening me. Have a nice day. Thank you. Bye
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And it will give that person space to assert their own needs and it can also make us reflect on what we are asking for, why we are asking for, how often we can ask them for. So it's a good way to maintain, make sure the relationship is balanced and reciprocative. Sometimes you are constantly in need to vent about a difficult situation because it's like you are handling it for a very long time and you just need a year to listen
The mystic
@The.mystic01 · 2:13
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