But that's not reality, is it? As we get older, truly, some things get harder, but others also get easier. In every stage of life, there are good aspects and bad. The key is to focus on the good and learn to live with the bad. Are you a splatter or are you a bouncer? Of course, not everyone does that. In fact, I found that there are really only two kinds of people in the world when it comes to dealing with discouragement