Am I too corny for black women?
And so I'm already kind of like, d***, this is not going to work. And the black women that I do see on there that I can see myself dating, they're either dating outside of their race, they're either dating white men I'm just being honest with you, which I don't mind. You can date whatever you want
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:52
I would love to meet you off the app or exchange numbers and then meet you off the app if you're interested. That would blow a woman's mind. Like, what? Wait a minute. He doesn't want to chat me to death for three to four, 5610, 100 weeks, number one. Number two, this dude just says something really different to the coverage of my face. Now let me tell you what she's going to do
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:33
So in this case of talking with black women, which is very interesting, I can imagine you have had some opportunities that you probably passed up because maybe you had an idealized, specific type of black woman in mind as opposed to any woman that happened to be black. And in the dating world, certain genetics can acquire you more options, but I think you still have options available
She was like, no, let's go to a restaurant. So we went to a restaurant. But yeah, it was good memories. Good memories. I don't go around telling females that you're like, hey, do you think I'm p***? Now, I don't go around saying that just only on this app, just to draw people in for discussion. But yeah, I have been in scenarios
I wish I would have taken that risk, because in my head, I'm thinking, well, she's not my type, but I just didn't take the risk, man. I don't know. Something is wrong with me. So there has been opportunities that I just let pass. But, yeah. I want to thank you for the vice, man. Thanks for the tips, brother
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:30
I'm more of the Netflix and chill type. Not not by design. It just ends up being that way. But I now, at 39 years of age, want to go out on dates with women. I want what you have. You did it the right way. But as you were telling me before, you didn't want it to go that way. It just kind of went that way. But yeah, man, if you build it, the black girls will come
Mo Houston
@thisisametaphor · 4:48
But what I have learned in that, especially from women and men alike, I think is that I think the majority of people who are on bumble, who have more control over what they want are the people who aren't looking for anything
I am sexually attracted to black women, and I feel that there are not enough of them. I don't feel like there's enough of them. On these dating apps. I see more of your people, and that makes sense because you make up the majority. Right? It's funny. It's kind of funny the way I said it, right? Your people. I didn't mean it like that. I did, but I didn't mean it like that
Shaniqua Murrell
@wayuphigh · 4:20
And he said, but you seem to be someone who would be more aligned with what I was back in the day. But I never came across that. And that was the first time I heard that. And then I heard it a second time. I heard it a second time in 2014, I met this guy off a dating app, and we are still friends to this day. He's an incredible artist. We talk on Instagram and text often
I'll be faithful, you know what I'm saying? Let them know. Set the rules, you know what I'm saying? Make some rules. Like, hey, this is how it's going to go. But yeah, man, broke. If I had that same drive like I do with watching TV, man, it'll be over. Broke. But yeah, man, a lot of it a part of it is just me complaining, expressing my frustration
I want to ask you something. How do you feel? I'm not sure if you're into black man. Maybe you date a black man, maybe you're not dating or maybe you're not into them. I'm not sure. But have you had problems or have you had insecurities about how black men may feel about your natural hair?
Braxxton Brown
@Br33zy · 4:07
And that person is dragging them through the mud, treating them like s*** and stuff like that. And I've never had the where people assume that I dated white women. But on my end of things, it's like I feel like I'm coming off as corny. It's like I got to do certain things in order for you to feel like you can date me
Shaniqua Murrell
@wayuphigh · 3:36
So I don't look good to you, but I look good to four other men. You know what I mean, so and I just I'll lay on that. I think whatever you like is what you like
I can't take it. This is too d*** much, man. Women, I can't deal with these females. I still have faith that will find her somewhere. I still have faith. A lot of it's on me. I'm telling you. A lot of it is on me. I just got to get out there more. Stop watching all this d*** TV
Hey. That's what I'm talking about. My lifeskinned, sister. Black power. That's what I'm talking about. Keep it in the family. I'll just get it. You know, you could date whoever you want, but, you know, we got to stay strong. No, we got to stick together. There's a war out here
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
But I'm curious to know, have you ever dated outside your race? If not, are you willing to? Because it seems like you are. It sounds like you don't mind, you know, dating outside your race. If you had dated outside of your race before, I would love to know, how did that go? Are you currently in a racial relationship? But if you had in the past, what was it like?
Hey, Luciana. I apologize for deleting your swell. I actually was trying to delete oh, God. What's your name? Not BRZY. I forgot her name, but I was trying to delete my reply because it was meant for you, so yeah, and I already have replied to her, so I got mixed up. I'm not used to getting all these replies. It's been a minute, so yeah. Forgive me
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:54
But whether you date a white woman, a black women woman, Indian woman, Asian, it's really or a man woman, whatever, it's about that person personal choice. And if someone does not recognize how awesome you or anyone else because they feel like they weren't meant for you to be. Because at the end of the day, I'm going to put it like this. I am going to put it like this
Braxxton Brown
@Br33zy · 2:39
Like, just with the advice, like, you know, listening to your swells and, you know, from my dad, like like, I pay attention to all the men around me and I take bits and pieces of what I want to, you know, kind of apply to myself. Because I'm still learning. I'm only six years in. I have to wipe away 30 something years of female. So it's all a process for me