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I thought it was a very mature and beautiful conversation, but it got me thinking specifically around my previous relationship with my ex, who is SIS hetmail, and this question, does that mean that he being with me was queer? I personally think that he would say no. I think that he still saw me as Jackson did with Cal as female, and that led to a lot of questions with me in regards to how I feel about that
Sontaia Briggs
@PKBriggs · 3:57
Yeah, I remember watching Sex Education the first season. I think it may be the second season, but apparently it's really gone down another path, so maybe I need to check it out again, but yeah, I just think it can get really tricky. I personally have had relationships long term relationships with a few women. I would say at least a handful that are I would not call them lesbians. I wouldn't even call them bisexual. Maybe bisexual. I don't know
Tasha Frank
@NLOFrank · 4:57
Hi. Pk. Thank you so much as always for your replies. You always bring so much interesting insight. And I look in what you have to say. And I know I say that too often, but it's true. Yeah. I just wanted to and pick up on what you said around the fact that you've had a few female partners who have been with you who don't necessarily identify as lesbian
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Sontaia Briggs
@PKBriggs · 2:15
So that's really good. But yeah, I think that if people could just accept people like each other, and sometimes the two people that are looking at in front of each other doesn't match what we've all been conditioned to see as norm or norm. But there are other things, and it's okay. And it doesn't have to be understood in this very traditional way that we're used to understanding things and just let people breathe. Right? Let people breathe
Tasha Frank
@NLOFrank · 3:35
Hey, PK, thank you. And thank you again. You said that some of my questions make you think a little bit more deeply. Your replies definitely makes me think in a different way, and I really love that. So thank you. Do sound like I talk a lot about LGBTQIA stuff, which I don't actually, I do in some circles because I am members of groups and do a little bit of kind of awareness
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