Hey, y'all. So if you look at the picture that I've attached to this audio, you see a picture of me. I don't know why I look like that. Look. I have that look on my face. Looks like my my socks are too tight, and I've been wearing them all day long. And then you see a picture of my wife and then, obviously, my son
But as far as people choosing it one or the her to prove that he's yours or not, I don't really sit well with that. A lot of the times. I don't think a father is so much really based on being paternal. Sometimes they can just be the sperm donor, you know, and not be a father. Takes an awesome special type of person to be a father, no matter if their sperm was the one who were the ones that won the race
So if someone says to you that they see your son and they just continuously make comments about how he looks like his mother's mother and not you, I can understand how that may feel like a slight and like this to you as a man and his father, but I'm telling you, as another young adult man, I have just a real quick personal antidote. I have a biological father who looks just like me. We're basically twins
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Hey there. Okay, so I looked at the picture. First and foremost, I just want to say that it is a beautiful thing that children are just like these miniature people that you created. And the cool part about having kids with somebody else is seeing the character, especially with somebody that you love. It's just seeing the characteristics of that kid as they grow up and watching them morph into their own person
I wanted to make sure I responded back to you and just tell you thank you just for the reminder of just being more intently focused on just the fact I can even like biologically for father and child. For one. But just the fact that it is amazing when you sit back and think. Especially as dumb as I used to be and just cutting full on everything the Lord has blessed me with. First a woman who could put up with me and then bless us with a son
So you're hoping, like, one, I'm going to pass on my last name so the bloodline goes on, that pedigree lives on. But then I want to be able to look at my son just like, yeah, that's me. Which I do. I do see just brilliant splashes of myself or who the Lord created me to be in my son
I can only speak for being a father, but it's tough, man. I think there's times I've probably been too hard on them. Then there's other times I probably wasn't hard enough on. But it doesn't come like they say, baby ain't born with a set of instructions in his a**, and he just pulls it out. It's like, her raise me. Yeah, great comment, too, man. I appreciate that
It's so funny too, because a lot of the time to be the parent and I want to bestow wisdom, right or whatever. Honestly, they're the ones that have the wisdom. They taught me more about myself, love everything more than I could ever teach them. Anyway, it's 1111 make a wish. Yeah, sorry. Thank you for the reply as well and awesome. First of all, congrats