@Musing_Matilda
Matilda Mubiru
@Musing_Matilda · 4:59

I am not for everybody

Hello. I'm back at it again and today I'm talking about how I guess have come to place of like peace or discontentment with the fact that I am just not for everybody. Growing up, I had experiences at varying ages with bullying, with teasing. And now when I really think about it, I think I just definitely really wanted to fit in. And it wasn't even so much that I stood out

Accepting everybody won’t necessarily like me was a toughie for me growing up. Now that I’m in my 20’s, I see changing mysef isn’t the move.

@ZLisbon
Zara Lisbon
@ZLisbon · 4:57
That's painful, especially, like, you're saying that it could boil down to the complexity of the cruelty of racism, and even almost worse than that, that people don't like your laugh, which to me tells me that it's an issue of jealousy. People didn't like that you were joyful and maybe last for seemingly no reason at the absurdity of life or just seeing things as funny
@PKBriggs
Sontaia Briggs
@PKBriggs · 3:05

And sometimes it not even aboit us. It’s them. @Musing_Matilda

And you want to get a response from someone, then probably push them or insult them, you'll definitely get some kind of response. It will be negative, but it'll be a response. Right. So that's just what I wanted to sort of offer to what you were saying is that it's good for all of us to, I guess, have that humbling moment where we realize we're not everybody's flavor or brand
@Musing_Matilda
Matilda Mubiru
@Musing_Matilda · 1:07

@ZLisbon

Hi, this won't be super long for apply, but thank you for your comment. I'm happy that you have found people that you that do appreciate who you are. Like you mentioned having your husband and your group of friends that you have
@Musing_Matilda
Matilda Mubiru
@Musing_Matilda · 1:05

@PKBriggs

And thank you for your perspective. Thank you for your comment. Thank you for even, like, listening fully to what I had to say and your spot on that phrase. I definitely have heard it hurt people. People hurt people. I think about that phrase a lot because I know when I think about my family and even the people that I have experienced, as you mentioned, like, these unwanted feelings and stuff, I recognize that they probably are hurt
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