They want it from every man. They want every man to see them the way their husband sees them. They want every man to think they're beautiful, just like their husband thinks they're beautiful. They want every man to still try to approach them even though they're a married woman. It's like they need to feel like I'm not just pretty to him, I'm pretty to everybody. So I don't know, it's just crazy to me. It's just wild
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:56
And it's all innocent, respectful, but at the same time, I am a loyal woman. So I would never cheat. I wouldn't even flirt if I'm in a relationship, marriage especially. But it's nice where I walk into 711 and not just any old guy, but, you know, a guy you can see is a true gentleman, and he's, like, holding the door, and he's like, wow, you smell nice. You're so beautiful
Glenn Mann
@GlennPriceMann · 2:11
I think even, you know, a married man who may get a lot of attention, even if he's not looking for anything, he likes the idea, hey, you know, I'm still, I still got it
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 4:27
I must be honest. We know that men's desirability, especially if they're starting off in life, desirable. They just get even more desirable as they get older. Appearance wise, their charm, wisdom, everything like that. You know, when my husband and I was working together, he consistently got flirted on by women. And at the same time, he noticed that men were noticing me, but I didn't notice I'd be in my own world
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 3:08
Hey, good afternoon, Miss Coles. Al Cosby here. As I always say, stay blessed and keep inspiring. I just want to thank you for taking the time to post this, and it's definitely an excellent question. And why do married women still crave attention? Interestingly, what I'm looking at, I'm looking at that word one. I'm zooming in on that
Michael Knight
@MK1981 · 3:21
And just, like, kind of think of it like, the whole purpose of this is for me to kind of go through life with this one individual person, everybody else just, you know, not that you're not a good person, not that you're not a good steward of the land and that you're not a good neighbor to people. It's just that other people's sexual desirability shouldn't register for you. At least I would hope so
Michael Knight
@MK1981 · 2:39
Hey, Ange. I mean, a little bit off topic, but I guess related. Like, you mentioned respect, and I was just like, as you were talking, I was just kind of thinking, like, do women know what respect is? Like?
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 1:40
Hi, Michael. Good morning. Yeah, there are definitely differences in how men and women view respect. And everything you were saying was pretty eye opening to me, even in terms of consequences. Right. So a woman can go after Steph and yeah, there are those who are looking to replace her. Right, to be the next misses curry
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:44
And on the flip side of that, men, as they get older, they're deemed to be more distinguished, more handsome, and nobody's looking at them as if their value is slipping because they've had children or been married or any of those things. They look at them as getting better with age, whereas women are looked at as declining with age. And so, yes, there's definitely a double standard there
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:42
That's why when it comes to not feeling seen, it's usually women talking about they don't feel seen. Men are more used to not really being seen, but women want to be seen. And so I think stuff like this bothers and affects women much differently than it does men. But thank you so, so much for your response
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:18
I would be fine if my husband was the only man who, you know, openly told me how beautiful I am and all that stuff for the rest of my life, I would be okay with that. But I think some women, they start to feel insecure, especially after they've had children. They're feeling more insecure about their physical appearance because they've had children
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:30
Hey, Michael, thank you so much for your response. I agree with everything you said, and I'm glad you understand where I was coming from, because I'm like, okay, as a single woman, I would love it if my husband was the man telling me I'm beautiful every day. I would love. I was just like
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 1:01
But you know, those ladies live the total opposite life that she does. And so when she's around that company of women who dumb been around the block, if you will, and you're sharing war stories, you probably wish she had a little bit of a war story to share. So I definitely agree with you there