And now their kids are turning 18, can't get credit cards, can't get car loans, can't get anything because they got evictions and judgments and all this stuff in their name and they haven't even had a start in life. Now, I'm not sure what happens in situations like that. I'm guessing that. I don't know what credit bureaus will do if it's a situation where you can, say, improve. Hey, I was 14
MJ Brewer
@Mommas_Jungle · 4:15
Children did not jump up and down, waving their hands in the air, saying, oh, please, give birth to me. Parents should be indebted to their children for bringing them in this world, if you want to call it that. The children are making parents, or should be making their parents lives more fulfilled. I know my kids do. My kids are everything to me
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:49
So he has great credit, great credit now. And then my brother. So I had told my mother what his mom had did because I was upset about it. And my mom, she just. She's different. And so instead of her taking it as if there's something no one should ever do, she took this opportunity. And so she had got credit cards in my brother's name. And nobody knew until my dad answered the phone one day and they were looking for
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:22
I mean, you know, I don't know where the mindset of parents believing they did us a favor by giving birth to us, I don't know where that mindset came from. I don't know who started that. And I don't know why we keep perpetuating it. Because your children didn't ask to be here. They're here because you wanted them here. Or even if you didn't want them here, you chose to bring them in the world. So here they are
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:54
And we're talking about back in the nineties, people with $100,000 worth of debt, which was a lot back then, which now that's probably a lot of people's college education, but back then, that was a lot of money. You're marrying somebody who does not know that you're carrying $100,000 worth of debt that could affect them adversely at some point in time. And so I do believe that you should disclose that type of information before you're married
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 4:23
Parents can be opportunists whether they know that there's another way or not. They abuse their children's name and Social Security numbers because they want to, not just because they want to put food on the table and all this other stuff, you know, try to make themselves sound noble. They're doing it because they can't. You know, trust me, a lot of these parents, they're not doing it just to put food on the table
MJ Brewer
@Mommas_Jungle · 1:51
It's all entertainment and it's all sales. It's money. And if money is coming in for something of any purchase at all, and there's a way to quote s in the air, verify it, they're going to do that without actually verifying it. But you're right, there absolutely should be a responsibility on the company that receives that pertinent information. That's incorrect, that's a lie, that's a scam, that's fraudulent
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:35
But, you know, credit is definitely fixable. And in this case, it was like stuff that was done years ago, so most of it was going to get written off anyways. And some of was under, like, his social, but his dad's name, it was crazy, but