And yes, sometimes masculinity can go to unhealthy extremes, especially when you start getting into the whole red pill manosphere community. But in general, God gave men masculinity. He gave women femininity. It's holy, it's good, it's righteous in his sight. And so therefore, God created us to be masculine and feminine
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 4:59
Well, I think sometimes as men, we have an issue with showing any vulnerability, showing any weakness. And I think what happens is that we tend to follow old silly sayings, men don't cry. If it ain't rough, it ain't right. Man up. And doing these things doesn't necessarily constitute you as being a real man
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:08
And I guess it's because I grew up with a dad, and my dad didn't break down and cry in front of us. My dad didn't show his emotions all the time in front of us. And I don't recall ever feeling like I needed to see that. I never grew up thinking, I need to see my dad cry. I need to see my dad be emotional. I need to see my dad. I never grew up feeling like I needed to see that from him
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
Hi, Tanya. Thank you for inviting me to this. I think you hit the nail on the head. A woman can tell when a man has the level of masculinity that she's looking for. I dated a man who was what they would call now a beta man. And I dated him, and I used to tell him what to do and that kind of stuff. And it was funny to me back then because I was late teens, early twenty s
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:29
I had an ex boyfriend who would cry during sex. Hey. It made me feel like I was doing something. So I don't know how I felt about that, but I think, like you said, it's just that it factor. It's that certain genes recois. I know I said that all wrong, but that a man has either he got it or he doesn't. And it's like you can't dress it up, right?
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:47
Hey, SIS, thank you so much for your response. You're right. Women can tell when a man has the level of masculinity that she wants. And unfortunately, masculinity has been demonized in recent years. And, you know, people call it toxic masculinity. You never hear people say, toxic femininity. Isn't that interesting? It's always toxic masculinity. And yes, men can be overly aggressive. Yes, men can be violent. Yes, men can be abusive
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:11
But like I was telling Andrea, I didn't grow up seeing my dad cry, and it didn't bother me. And I didn't think it was weird or strange because my dad's a man. And it's not that I didn't think he could cry. It's just that as a man, I didn't expect my dad to cry. But I know my dad has cried. I know he has. He's talked about it, so I know that he has cried
Bernard Harmon
@iambernard · 4:42
So when a woman that don't submit or I guess submit to a man who is masculine just have too much testerone, too much masculine in herself, so that part of her fights with that masculinity. It's like, boom, two lions fighting together instead of you don't see a lion and the female lion fighting a wrestle to play with each other, and then they become romantic. But anyway, great topic
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:49
Bernard, thank you so much for your response. And I agree with everything you said. Everything you said was spot on. I agree. We do have a lot of masculine women in today's society, in today's culture, femininity is not something that's really widely taught anymore. You know, remember back in the days when they used to have what they call finishing schools?