Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 7:30
The Truth About Singleness, Pt. 15: Married folks, just love the one you’re with.
I'm telling you, married folks, it's not better out here. You're not gonna find better if your husband and wife are good people. Y'all just not on the same page right now. It's not better out here. I know we have that fear of missing out, that fomo fear of missing out, fear of thinking that there are better men and women out here than what we have
dee felton
@MrDee · 4:56
It's even more difficult sometimes when the shared custody is equal, because there are just certain things that you can't have control over when that child is not in your home, not in your, under your guardianship during that time, even more so hard when the custody is in balance and one parent has to do too much, one parent has the advantage. It's always going to be that way in a divorce
Shawna Kearsley
@OnAcornBay · 4:48
We have to teach the vulnerability piece in order to get there. But the responsibility on the woman, I mean, I hold myself accountable for being better at this piece. But what I'm hearing is it's so pervasive. But women, I do agree that, you know, listening is the powerful act of validation and empathy. And that's where the work begins. We don't know how to do it. We listen to our friends, we tell ourselves stories and ruin good things
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:36
And so she's not a teeny bopper college girl doing this anymore, and it comes with many, many challenges, and so she's realizing that. And so I, for one, will be here if they get reconciled. Now, speaking to the larger picture of save it. The one you got, I feel you in this now, I know some people say, well, no, my happiness. Go make your happiness. Go make your happiness while staying together
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:12
She's been married three times. But she said when she looked back at her previous two marriages, both of them could have survived. Both of them could have survived. Neither of them had to end the divorce. But it took her being married a third time and looking back at those previous two marriages to realize, you know, what? We could have worked through that. We could have worked through that, and our marriage could have survived it
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:58
Hey, Tanya, I have to chime back in because you said men have vision, women have dreams. What? Oh, that is good. And if that ain't the whole truth, this is why we need one another for that balance. One of the many reasons they do. I mean, even look at the dating scene I watch. Well, not now, because I'm off social media, thank the Lord
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:18
He's single and he's wrote some books. I actually did a show with him a couple of years ago, and he's a really nice guy, but he asked, what are. What are. What is one of the. What is the greatest obstacle you face in dating? And the vast majority of the responses were disappointment. And of course, we know that disappointment. Disappointment essentially, is unmet expectations