Virgin women who are in their forty s and fifty s who have never been married and they've never been with a man and they are still holding out for marriage as being their first sexual encounter. I think society sometimes wonders, when a woman starts to age as a virgin, why she hasn't been married yet or why hasn't a man wanted to marry her or whatever the situation may be. BecausE in the Bible and even in our more traditional society, virginity is thought to be a premium
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 2:00
I saw this topic the other day, and I thought to myself, that's wonderful. I mean, it's wonderful that she is a pure representative of what God wants us to be before we get married. And I am very happy for her. I'm also worried for her at the same time because she's almost 40 and she's never had sex, and she doesn't have any children. And if it's her desire to have children, then I do agree
Magenta Deveraux
@AKAMagenta · 5:00
There's a podcast I was listening to by this girl who used to be a very famous video chick who was saying something to the effect of, cool, marry the slut, because your man has done this and this and that, and here you are as a virgin. You haven't done anything, so he has to, I guess, teach you. And some of these men don't want to teach, you know what I mean?
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:55
The fact that she's been untouched is not a plus in their book. In fact, at this point it's a minus. It's old untouched Cookie. And that's degrading. Yes, but that's what they're saying. They don't want to teach her. If she's dating guys in their forty s, fifty s or whatever, they don't want to teach her basic stuff. They don't want to turn her over
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:34
They have to take their time and take it slow, and they understand that kind of stuff. But when you're older and you're more set in your ways and all the things that come with just getting older, are they going to have that same patience with an older know? And so, like, you don't. I don't know what their dating experiences have been like. Lolo sometimes will post things on her Instagram
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 3:45
Hopefully I could find his picture and everything and post it up here. But there's some guys out there who are looking for older women. But I think the whole thing, it boils down to is time. All this time you waited for a husband first. And unfortunately, we are in times where a lot of guys, not all, but a lot of them are just a hookup type of culture
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 4:42
Again, the way I feel about it, if the man is truly, deeply in love with her and she's in love with the man, well, they will teach each Other, or they need to teach each other. Sex ain't that complicated. It boils down to, sex is not that complicated, man. I think if you really love your partner, what are you going to do?
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:34
Because by all intents, it's like, okay, you're a beautiful woman. You're a tall, beautiful woman. You have a nice body. You have a beautiful face. You look like a woman that would be desired by so many men. So I guess from that perspective, it's like, it doesn't quite make make sense that somebody as beautiful as you is still a virgin and still not married at this stage in your life because you're a beautiful woman
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:21
And so this is what's being promoted and it's hurting the dating culture. Women are being told, well, don't go on evening dates if you don't plan to have sex, because men expect sex when they take you out in the evening time. Go to lunch, go to breakfast. So what kind of message is that? Most of us work all day. So what kind of breakfast and lunch dates are you talking about? Are you talking about on the weekend?
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 1:53
I hope they both get married, and I hope that their desire is fulfilled in that area and that they don't have to continue to wait. I hope that they can both become mothers if that's their desire. I want them to do what they wish to do. Desire to do, pray to do. So. Yeah. I don't know. It's hard for me to imagine what they feel like in 2023, being virgins at 40 years old
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:17
Hey, sis. I agree. It is God's original design for us to be virgins until we're married. That was his design for every woman. And of course, because we live in a fallen world, most of us stepped outside of his divine will and did what we wanted to do to please our flesh or to give in to pressure from others or society piety. So we did what we wanted to do. And unfortunately, this is why we have a lot of single parent homes
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 3:12
But like you said, in a hookup type of culture, and especially with people saying, don't go to dinner at night with someone because the guy is going to. I didn't even know that was a thing, but I guess it would be if we're in a sex type of culture. Yeah. My heart definitely does go out to those who are single because I tell you what, I know the type of person that. The personality that I have
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 4:37
So I think it's nice that she's sticking to her beliefs. I really do. And then with Lolo Coles. Yeah, same thing. I think that that's nice because these are also people who are having, like, they're meeting so many different people and having so many different encounters. More than the average person, for sure. So I'm sure it gets tough
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 4:14
But my main point is, again, dating in general is challenging in and of itself, and to put tighter and tighter restrictions on what you're looking for and what you want, it just makes it even tougher. So, I don't know. Good luck to those people who choose to narrow, who choose to look through that narrow window because it's going to be tough. All right, take care. Bye
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:34
Look what it has done to them mentally and emotionally, to the point where they're like, man, I would have never done that if I known that. I would have to deal with the fallout. Like, yes, the physical part of it, fine, but then I have to deal with the emotional and mental pieces of it. And so this idea that men can just sleep around, sleep around, sleep around, sleep around, and it's okay