I really can't do anything about it except pray that she wises up. Pray that the naiveness and just her superficial desires won't guide her decisions. But I don't think it's fair to blame her parents for her pursuing or deciding to be in a relationship with this older man. Now, what about the older man? Like, why is he pursuing a 21 year old girl? He may have grandchildren her age, for all we know
MJ Brewer
@Mommas_Jungle · 2:10
And also, he sounds like he's treating her respectfully. You know, there's a lot of women that are with guys that don't respect them and treat them poorly that are the same age or a couple of years older. You know, I myself, if. If I had a choice of being with someone that's older and respectful or someone who's more vivacious, young and violent, I would choose the first one
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:46
So it makes sense that we're dating and marrying people our own age because that's who we're around. But these girls have traveled the world. They, you know, she's a, her Aoki is a Harvard graduate and so they've been exposed to a life of privilege and they are around a different type of person than we are
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:08
But if he is kind and loving to her, I guess there's nothing wrong with it, is it? Who she gonna settle down and start a family with, though? Probably not. But, hey, this is just one relationship and one summer
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:18
No, they were probably about five to ten years older. But we did date older guys because of the resources they could provide. Guys our age, they didn't drive. They were still riding the school bus, and they had no job. They were still getting allowances or whatever, or they may have had a little part time job
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:12
I'm like, oh, this is so mismatched. And it's just I feel like she's gonna be throwing away, like, used goods, right? This is not a case of her securing the bag. This is not a case of her dating in her lane or her range. It's like she's just his wet sponge for today, and then tomorrow, when she's dried up, it's somebody
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:48
Building a life together. She's not mature enough to be thinking on that level. It's just all glitz and glamor to her right now. But thank you so much
MJ Brewer
@Mommas_Jungle · 1:04
Yeah, that's what I was saying is that I don't think that it's grooming. I don't think she was grooming her. I think that she inadvertently may have taught her just from her daughter seeing what's going on. But again, the whole scheme of it is it's not my business. I have nothing to gain or lose from it. It doesn't seem like she's doing anything wrong. I really don't think it's anyone's business