But as a woman, you're definitely going to be looked at like you're a w****. You're going to get the scarlet letter A on your chest and you'll probably get stone to death. And it's not fair, it's not right. But it is definitely how I think we are still kind of viewed
So of course men don't see it like that because they like to brag and say, hey, I had her. And I'd be like, in what way? Because I know myself. I know I like to play. And before I was married, that was one of the one of the things that I did with the joy, you know, intimacy, but not necessarily sex, unless it's something that I wanted to do
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:47
They're going to frame an answer that they believe you might find or society might find as acceptable? No. Let's just get to know one another organically by spending time together. I'm going to see for myself why your relationship likely ended or when your last relationship truly ended. It's going to all organically come out. But what will likely rule someone out for me is not their past, who they've been within the time frame and body count
Hi there. Hi there. Yes. Yes. I love it and totally agree with it. Hey. I'm going to have to pass that one along and reframe that into a question when that question is asked. I have a girlfriend right now that's going through that, and I sent this over to her. Hopefully she'll get on swell and hear your reply. I love it. Thank you
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 3:02
Hey, ladyo. L I'm glad you found it helpful. I'm grateful and thankful to the universe in life, exposing me to content from real men and interactions with real men. Where I was, there I was where your friend was and had the same thought. Like, these are questions you should ask. And then once it was presented to me in a different way of why those questions should not be asked and why it's those questions are not of value and not important
