Looking for Love or Just Looking Around?
A lot of them get on there, not even sure where to start. And there's like this option on one of the dating apps that I've been on that says, still trying to figure out my dating goals. Like, what are you really doing? What is your intentions? These are the questions that I've always asked when I read these people BIOS. Like, you know, you can't judge a book by its cover, you can judge a picture, but you just really wonder
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:47
So I don't know what the remedy is or if there is a remedy to all of this, because you have singles that are in so many different places in life, so many different places as to what they want. What they think they're looking for, what they think they want, where they are in terms of life experiences where they are in terms of wisdom, in terms of goals and values and morals
Tara Robinson
@IAmJoy · 2:40
But I also have to say, as a wedding official, I am seeing an extreme number of people who are meeting on some of these dating apps and finding their person who they want to marry. But I do agree with your point about people needing to set some intention about what it is that they're looking for. And I think before we do that, there should be some self assessment, some self discovery in who am I, what am I about, what matters to me, what's important
I personally think that people look at it as a game out here, even though it's not. They don't realize that people's feelings can get involved. And while they're playing this game, they're hurting people along the way. And I don't think that's cool at all. I think people should really consider that not everyone is out here just doing it for a show or doing it to look good or for whatever the reason is
Like they just want to just get on there, see who's going to be the next whatever and then just act like they're just looking for this perfect relationship or whatnot, but it's all just bogus and it's a waste of time. I just don't understand. But that was a really great point. And again. Welcome to swell. I hope you enjoy the different topics that we all have to share
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 4:06
Hey, good evening, everyone. I kind of stumbled onto this topic, but I think I enjoy hit it, hitting the nail on the head. You know, in order to know what you want, you really have to kind of know yourself. And whether you're in person talking to someone who asks you the question, what do you want? Or you, you're on a dating website or whatever, you really kind of have to understand who you are, what makes you happy