@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:31

Keep it to YOURSELF! Stop BASHING other people’s Swells!

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I've been getting a few comments on my swells about, oh, I don't do this or I don't do that, but the swell is about the people that do do it. So if you don't do it, don't comment. Because guess what? I don't care. I really don't. I don't care why you don't do it. If you choose not to do it, that is your right

#Negativity #That’sYourBusiness #BePolite #Encouragement #JustBeNice #LadyFi

@malekea
Maurice Lekea
@malekea · 2:23
Some people can be in the situation, some people are not into the situation. But I'm glad you stated very well they are. Also, sometimes I listen to some swells. It looks like it's like they're talking to me. But I don't feel offended. I just feel okay that if someone thinks the same way I'm thinking, that means that this is not individual situation, it's a general situation. I always think general. I don't intend to address anyone personally
@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:17

@malekea

Thank you, Malekea. I really appreciate that. I don't try to post anything personally to anyone. I will private message you if I have a problem in regards to you in particular, or if I have something I want to share with you, or if I have a question I want to ask you. I try to do it privately here on swell, and I am not trying be mean. I don't have an attitude. I'm not trying to be vicious or petty or small
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@AKAMagenta
Magenta Deveraux
@AKAMagenta · 3:37

I’m over it….😅 It’s not that serious AT ALL @LadyFi

That didn't make any sense for me to be voting for Trump, even with being from New York City, where the stuff all, I've seen how he does, how his family has done for New York City, there would be no reason for me to be voting or supporting for Donald Trump or quite frankly, none of these candidates I'm happy with. I haven't been happy with the american politics in post. There was no need for this post at all
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@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:39

@AKAMagenta

You. Hey, you must got me confused with somebody else cares, really, because I have never bashed you or I have never hit you privately. I've never done that. But you feel guilty much? I mean, guilty much, because I wasn't really talking about you. I've been on several swells this week, and they haven't all been my swells. And I've heard other people put stuff out there
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@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:32

@AKAMagenta

And one more thing. I'm not trying to convince anybody to vote. I put the information out there. If people want to vote, I am trying to show them what they need to do it. If they choose not to do it, that is on them. But I, and what I was trying to do was to teach and inform, to show people the way. So I'm not trying to pull anybody toward voting. I advise. It is a good thing
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@AKAMagenta
Magenta Deveraux
@AKAMagenta · 2:50

@LadyFi Whatever!

I'm sick and tired of people like you who just can't deal with other people's political views, opinions, or anything else like, it sounds very ignorant. You sound ignorant. All of you sound really damn ignorant that you have no clue what's going on anywhere else in the world other than your own little bubble that nobody can get into. It's called self awareness, okay? It's called awareness. It's a really small minded, narrow minded way of thinking, sis
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@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 3:47

@AKAMagenta

It. First of all, you need to breathe. You need to calm down. Nobody said I was blocking you. If you paid attention to the swell, it said I was not blocking you. I don't interact with your material for the most part because I don't have anything to say about it. I do listen to it, but if I feel like I don't have anything positive to add to it, then I don't comment
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@Andrea_Speaks
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:59

@LadyFi

And it was crazy to me because me being a woman of God and being the way that I am and the swells that I made, he and I were able to get along because I realized that although a lot of his swells were comedic, some of the things that he were saying, they weren't necessarily untrue. He just said it in a comedic way
@Andrea_Speaks
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 1:34
And the people who want to. I'm just going to finish this up. The people who want to disagree, but be respectful in their disagreeing, let those people have their conversation without having to endure arguing with you. You know what I mean? And if it's a topic that you don't want to hear about or you don't want to talk about, pass it by and leave them alone. And let them have their discussion. Just keep scrolling. Just keep scrolling
@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 2:48

@Andrea_Speaks

If don't like my swell, if you know that you don't like my swell right off the bat from the title, do not comment, do not say nothing. Because what you're doing is you're making it more difficult for other people to say something. A lot of people on this app just listen. They don't say anything. There are thousands of people on this app, probably hundreds of thousands, that just listen
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@Andrea_Speaks
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:23

@AKAMagenta

And just because somebody makes a post about something that you may have been involved with on something else, that doesn't mean that the next post is about you. But again, a hit dog is going to bark. So go ahead and keep barking because you're just letting people see who you are. That's all you're doing. You're letting people see who you are
@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 2:07

@Andrea_Speaks

Thank you, Ms. Andrea. I really appreciate you taking the time to talk about this subject to indicate to her that this isn't really about her and that she has some previous issues that she needs to deal with. I am willing to converse with anybody on this app. I love this app. I love it because we learn together. And that is exactly what try to do. I try to teach and I try to learn together. I don't have 1000 subscribers
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@chitchatwithkk
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:39
Like we waiting on you to exit. But people feel a certain kind of way because of how they feel about themselves. What they speak is a reflection of them, not a reflection of you or anybody else who had us. Well, on here, this is public. People come on because they want to conversate or they don't. They want to listen or they want to make posts. So there's nothing that can be done about people who come on here
@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 2:32

@chitchatwithkk

I'm sorry that it's getting on your nerves, but if it's getting on your nerves, don't say anything about it. Don't listen to it. Block me. I don't know about people, but like you say, some people have mental health issues that they need to deal with. And I feel really bad because really bad for them
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@SeekingPlumb

@LadyFi

I'm not paying attention to all of your interactions. And again, there was no stated name or specific swell mentioned, and I don't blame you. There's not necessarily a good thing to name things. On the other hand, when things aren't named, then there can be a lot of room for interpretation. Anyway, I see that she's deleted her account, but I just wanted to offer perhaps an outsider's perspective again, for whatever it's worth
@SeekingPlumb

@LadyFi The 15-30 minute Swells.

Oh, I think it was you who mentioned you weren't sure how some people were recording swells close to 30 minutes long premium accounts, which I think you know, can record up to 15 minutes using the app. You can also create swells between 15 and 30 minutes long if you use another means of recording it and have that file and upload it to swell. But only premium accounts can do that
@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:30

@SeekingPlumb

It's. Thank you so much for that additional information. I was wondering. I was wondering how he did that. And, yes, that is who I was listening to, the 79th street kid when I noticed that his swells were longer than 15 minutes. I mean, I enjoyed it, however. And I thought maybe that he covered the stuff that he covered well, in 30 minutes. But, yes, ma'am, that is exactly what I was talking about
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@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 4:04

@SeekingPlumb

And blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, the whole subject being turned into something entirely different. And it's okay to voice your opinion, but the way that they were expressing themselves was that the person had done something wrong by saying something on their own swell. That the whole subject matter that they brought up was incorrect and they needed to be straightened out in regards to it. That is why I was done. It had nothing to do with her. Now you're talking about the timing
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@SeekingPlumb

@LadyFi

I was going to say a man, but I don't know that you're referring to a man. Let's just say when you dropped the octave of your voice to refer to this other person who was trying to tell someone or imply that maybe they had done something wrong. I've run into a number of those as well, here and elsewhere, of people trying to say what you ought to do, not ought to do, should do, not do, et cetera
@tjh
Trevor Hammack
@tjh · 5:00

I don't know if I should but here I go. lol

I hope the perspective is as diverse as they can be, to people who are very religious, to people who are completely atheistic, to people from different perspectives, different ideologies, from different backgrounds, different cultures, and all comes together. And sometimes they're going to have little clashes, but hopefully from within the clashes, we gain greater insight and understanding. So I appreciate you allowing this to be here, and hopefully something good will come from it
@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:33

@tjh

If you don't do it in a way that's respectable, I'm going to tell you that wasn't nice, but I'm going to try to be nice when I tell you. I mean, if that helps. But thank you so much
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@AnngieKaye
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:59

@SeekingPlumb @LadyFi

Hi, Evelyn and Christina. I want to jump in on this part because we went from talking about bashing twelve to talking about magenta specifically. So I'm going to jump in because we're talking about her. I for 01:00 a.m. Glad she deleted her account, and she may create another account because for some reason, she's obsessed with certain people on this app. But for now, I'm glad her account is deleted. She needed to go
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:55

@DearAuntyAng

Hey, forgive the fan in the background. Thanks, Auntie Inch. I'm not glad she's gone. I'm glad that the confusion is gone. But people leave this app so quickly because their feelings are hurt. I just thought maybe we could talk it out, like to get to the bottom of whatever it was that was bothering her. But then she was like, you fake black women and blah, blah. And I was just like, seriously, calm down. Breathe
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@AnngieKaye
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 1:29

@LadyFi

You. Hey, Evelyn. I see we're still up around these parks. It's 1245 here in Texas, so I didn't think nobody was up. But, hey, you're such a kind person, and I love your personality because, yeah, there's times to reach out and clear the air, and there's other times. And I'm like, no, that's so admirable of you to have reached out to her, even offer your phone number to her
@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:56

@DearAuntyAng

I'm gonna let you go to bed cuz I know it's Larie. But you know what? I had stopped listening to her once. She was yelling like a banshee. I said I'm gonna stop listening because after the whole Wendy Williams and whatever she said and I don't know, I had stopped listening at that point because. Why are you yelling? And that's why I was like you need to breathe. Calm down
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@Andrea_Speaks
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:59

@DearAuntyAng @LadyFi

And so we have to preserve, at least for ourselves, for your page and your content. You have to preserve that right, the right to be able to be vulnerable on here without people attacking you, to be able to state your opinion without people attacking you. And I don't think there's nothing wrong with it. When you defend yourself. I don't think there's nothing wrong with it. When you report people who are constantly harassing other people
@Andrea_Speaks
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 1:02
But enough about that. It's 2024. So what's up, Kitha? Swell. Meet up in somebody's town? I'm about to make a swell about that. I'm about to make a swell about that right now. I don't know why I'm up. I do know why I'm up. I took a muscle relaxer and now I can't go back to sleep because it's wore off. Yeah, I'm rambling now
@AnngieKaye
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 0:58

@Andrea_Speaks

Hey Andrea, I'm definitely here for a swell meetup. I was actually to do a post and it got crazy with the end of the year and some stuff that happened in the family. But I wanted to set up like a swell happy hour or a meet and greet or whatever on Zoom, right where we can see each other's faces, just chill on a, you know, Friday night
@Andrea_Speaks
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 2:16

@DearAuntyAng

I think I also have a streamyard account. I wonder if we could do it on streamyard, too. I don't know. But, yeah, we can do it on Zoom or on teams, however, Google Meet, however, whatever we got to do. I know with teams, if you don't have a certain membership, I mean, with Zoom, if you don't have a certain membership, it's only 30 minutes long that you can have
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