Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 8:12
Love Shouldn’t Hurt: How Reesa Teesa’s Situation is more Common nowadays and Why that’s important!
And that in itself makes me sad. And I, too, was part of that. I was in a bad marriage, an abusive marriage, physically, and then the second marriage was an abusive marriage, psychologically and emotionally. And that's why I understand her plight. That's why I understood her story. That is why I identified with her. I sympathized and I empathized with her because everything that she said, I felt, well, what's the solution?
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:49
And that was my case. But it's not that he was just horrible, but he wasn't true and honest to me, and he wasn't giving me all his time because he couldn't. So it is what it is. But now dating, like you said, protect yourself. Actually, when I have someone who's interested in me, I always have their names, and I looked it up because chances are, if they have a history, they vine report is up
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 2:09
Hello. Thank you so much, KK. You know what? I'm married now, but I still. I still ask questions. I still want to know. I still suspect, you know, because I have been married three times now. I told myself with this marriage, I'm never going to give a person 100% of me. I'm sorry, I'm not going to do it
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 2:27
But then also, you know, don't ignore the yellow flags. Don't ignore the red flags, you know what I mean? And then also by talking about it, you know, by sharing our experiences with other people, you know, you. You see somebody and you see them with somebody in it. In it bait, you know, and you don't necessarily have to tell them like, oh, girl, he abusive
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 2:15
Not that God is not a healer because he, he can release you from some stuff. He can make it where it never happened in your mind or your heart. However, it does take time, phase, energy and sometimes therapy in order to let stuff go. And I know for a fact I haven't let some things go because they were just too devastating, too demanding and took way too much time and energy out of my life. So I deflect and I sometimes let stuff go
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:52
Because once you can really master self and continue the daily work that's required to master self, then by the time you introduce a love interest or a love interest is introduced to you by the. By God, then you are so in tune with self that you are able to know and have an awareness when something is off and trust and trust my significant other. One of his constituents shared a phrase with him, and I love it
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 2:25
I agree with you. I believe that getting to know oneself is the very first job you have to do, especially if you're going back out and dating or you're going dating, period. What do you like? What don't you like? What makes you feel good? What doesn't? What are your trigger words? What places do you not want to go? Where do you want to go? What is your plan for yourself in five years? Where do you see yourself being?
Robert Jenkins
@Guruball1 · 4:26
Because this is not who she is. This might be what she wants. You can't get to the point where you rush to get in relationships. And that's what everybody's rushing. We rushing to get in a relationship. We rushing to have sex with people. We rush in for this intimacy. We rush in because you make me feel good. You rushing because you make me smile
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 2:04
But that's okay, because every day I learn how much more I love him and I hope that he learns that, too, about me. But I do think that people should slow down now. At my age, I knew what I wanted. So for me, getting married a little bit after a year, it wasn't a big thing. Because at my age, I know what I want. I got what I want. I got married
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:48
You know, at first, we don't know people until we move in with them. And they. And that's exactly what you start finding out how the things. When she moved in, when he moved in with her, you know, so we got to start looking at things other than just on the surface. And if God gives us a sign, we need to pay attention. She didn't. She denied all the signs because he said that he had this, and she was