I lost it this week
And all men, my husband and my twin boys who aren't really boys, they're 20 years old, but they still have no ability to see on a shelf where the creamer is in the refrigerator or whether or not they misplace something. I am always paying attention to their stuff. And it broke my heart this past month to recognize and realize that I don't have anybody paying attention to my stuff
But I take care of my folks who are older and not in the best health, and I'm just always around and on for them just because, like we were saying, the world is changing a lot. And there are certain ways that I don't feel really can advocate themselves for themselves in the way that I can. Something as simple as setting up an appointment online, doing stuff at the doctors for them, just making sure that everything is sort of in order
Not healthy, emotionally bankrupting yourself because the people we love the most we feel have no ability to have forethought, have situational awareness, critical thinking, intuitiveness, or even the ability to realize apathy and empathy for the people they're around is definitely not a sane thing to keep up with. Especially when you finally figured out that a woman in the last 30 years, it seems unfair because it's like a woman gets married
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It actually just downloaded. This gonna be the relationship? I don't really know what I'm gonna do right now. I wanted to say that even though it might not feel like they're looking really does
Hi, Kate. I just finished listening to your discussion, and just by the tone of your voice, I can tell you were definitely not having a good day. But the nice thing is, you can use this venue as a way to vent your frustration sometimes and your feelings. That said, all I want to say is this. You sound like a fantastic mother. The way you take care of your family and you feel that it's taken for granted
