@Kashishlongiany
Kashish Longiany
@Kashishlongiany · 2:12

I love you but I’ll let you go. Have you ever said that to someone?

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Have you ever left somebody for your own good? I mean, I love you, but I have to let you go. Maybe. I mean, how would you, like, talk to stars about you? Talk to the moon about you? I suggest by myself, talking to the moon, trying to get to you. But sometimes we have to let go people for our own good. And I would spend my whole night thinking about why and why did this happen to me?
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@MysticScientist
Indy Rishi Singh
@MysticScientist · 1:00
We spend so much energy and time trying to force love, but if we don't force it, then we really do things we love and we connect with people who resonate with that love
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@Kashishlongiany
Kashish Longiany
@Kashishlongiany · 1:12

@MysticScientist

I mean, we put so much effort in those people without ever wanting an outcome to be very honest. And I feel like they won't ever give us an outcome as well. I mean, putting efforts to those people is just like watering a dead plant sometimes, and there's no need to water dead plants. So I feel like you should sometimes let go of people. You can love them all
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@GKaul2001
Gautam Kaul
@GKaul2001 · 1:31

Yes

But I guess that if you love someone, then you love them either way, if they're with you or they're not with you. So you can't engineer a relationship. So it just happens naturally. If it happens, then great. If it doesn't happen, then maybe it was not for you. So I guess for me, if you love someone, then you can definitely let them go. Because if you love someone, nothing else matters to you there's
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@Kashishlongiany
Kashish Longiany
@Kashishlongiany · 0:25
Hey yes I have seen sex education and I love MAPE with that other topic but I do feel sometimes you cannot endure a relationship and it's not in your hands if things work out or not and hurt is inevitable. And sometimes you are not lucky to find your love and it's okay. Maybe someday, someday you will find your love. So just don't lose hope
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@Gaurav1106
Gaurav Chauhan
@Gaurav1106 · 3:04
Despite what happened there, I thought I would become someone who cannot be loved or I would never be able to love anyone. I felt dead and then alive and sometimes weeping, sometimes laughing. So as soon as she was there or she went away, there are so many mixed emotions. However, I would love to quote Rumi here, which says, when love itself comes to kiss, you, do not hold back
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@Kashishlongiany
Kashish Longiany
@Kashishlongiany · 2:28

@Gaurav1106

So I'm not high on love, to be very honest. And my experience of love was very saddening. I mean, I was, what, in 7th to 12th? It's a long, pretty experience with that one person. But after 12th, I figured out that there's no point in being a hopeless romantic. Sooner or later, somebody will break your hearts eventually. So I would put all those efforts for just breaking your heart, so I love myself instead. If that works out
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@Gaurav1106
Gaurav Chauhan
@Gaurav1106 · 1:55
If you were hopelessly romantic and you then became someone who's matured, real or whatever the word was, I just feel a little sad because life is absolutely gorgeous. Absolutely. It risks everything. And it does not ask for anything. And I think my cat is chiming in on that. So my only ask, not a suggestion, not anything. My only ask will be that you still stay hopelessly romantic, even for yourself. I mean, that is our first love
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@Kashishlongiany
Kashish Longiany
@Kashishlongiany · 1:04

@Gaurav1106

It's a metaphorical thing, obviously perfectly functional, but jokes apart, it is very difficult to assemble all the broken pieces again in life and I did that gradually putting so much effort, your efforts, Facebook and these types of conversations in life because
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@Gaurav1106
Gaurav Chauhan
@Gaurav1106 · 0:52
So I always end up agreeing to you somehow, and I will agree to you again on that. I just hope I have this policy of, like, I'm a believer that good things do happen to good people. And with whatever interaction I've had with you, you're someone who I can, without a shadow of doubt, say, I feel good people, and your Positivity will probably light up everything. And there are going to be great endings in life
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@Kashishlongiany
Kashish Longiany
@Kashishlongiany · 0:15

@Gaurav1106

Thank you so, so much. It means a lot. And I hope you the same more happiness and positivity in life always. And thank you so much and stuff
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@bipashaa
Bipasha Sehrawat
@bipashaa · 0:22
I mean. Yeah. You know, sometimes we spend our effort or our energy to someone who's not worth it. And sometimes we forgive someone, you know, so many times that they started to think or they started to take us for granted. So letting someone go for your own good is not wrong
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