Do children have to be useful to their parents?
I totally agree to the fact that our parents in this process of life, there are times when they abandon us, where they don't treat us right, where there are situations when they totally forget the rights and the wrongs and they put a lot of pressure on us, but no parent will ever forget about their own child completely
Apart from that, I believe it's about the burden of expectations put on them, like you're expected to do certain things a certain way because you're supposed to be bought up by us in this particular way. And this just goes on and on
They are from Village. I really understand that. So first of all, understanding why your parents are like that, like this really important thing and how to put it. I don't want to make them happy. They'll be happy if I stand on my own legs. Not only my parents, everyone's parent will be happy if their children can stand on their own legs. 25, 26 years old, right. No denial in that. No one can deny that fact
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
They have opinions and they think for themselves, how can you be so bold and audacious and say, you own this person? So our parents out of love, funny enough, sometimes overprotect us, and that comes off harshly and oppressive to us as children. And we get that perspective of Dang. I'm not even given freedom to be human. My parents want me to be this chair and just sit here and behave and do what they say
Binati Sheth
@Binati_Sheth · 2:28
As I said, it's very easy to be nice. So be nice. That's it. It's very simple. And one issue that I have with commentary we see about parents and parents commenting on the children and all of that. There is an inherent assumption of perception. We as children assume our human parents have to be perfect all the time. Our parents as parents assume that their human children have to be perfect all the time. That is not possible
Bipasha Sehrawat
@bipashaa · 0:28
Hi Pashir so my opinion on girls, I'll say we don't have to be useful for them just because they gave us birth. My point is that you should be faithful and caring towards them because us. Yes, they gave you the best they can and they put you above from everything else, even themselves. So yes, we also have some responsibilities towards them
You know, you're right. When you say that the expectations are at fault, I feel like, yes, sometimes we want our parents to understand that we have certain amount of expectations from them and then they want us to understand understand that they have certain amount of expectations from us. They're like, you have to do this because we are your parents and we are like, you have to do this because we are your kids. So that is something that is never ending in life
And even I agree that there's no point in criticizing your parents because to some extent, whatever they're doing in life is for us. I mean, every parent is different from the other parent, right. Every parent has their own journey, had their own experiences through which they further want their children to be protected or through which they want them to go in a certain way or do in a certain manner do things in a certain way
So even though our parents are harsh to us sometimes or maybe a lot of times, but I feel like they've done a lot of sacrifices and there's a lot they've done for us that we should never forget because if all the time criticize them, then we are just going to be left with regrets in later life. So as long as they are around us, I just want to make sure that I don't say or do anything that break them