We put our hands on him and as his heart stopped and he, like a warrior, passed on, we watched his eyes open wide, his pupils dilated until they took up the whole of his eyes. And I swear I saw his spirit whoosh out through the body. He was so loved. Our kids were there with us. We were all very sad and we were able to hold space for him on his transition. My daughter sprinkled some flower petals on his body