You have dating coaches on TikTok saying, well, don't be overly invested into the relationship. Leave some form of mystery. Have him yearn for you. Then you have others that are like, you have to bombard them with text message. You have to call them all the time because you don't want them to lose interest. And it's confusing. And I don't take none of that. I don't listen to it. I don't try to implement it. No