One of the life lessons that I've learned that I think is valuable in understanding relationships in the spectrum of closeness is that some people will only talk to you in their free time, while others will free up time to talk to you. Testing game
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 2:29
Certain people just hold certain weight with you. And when you realize that you don't hold that weight with other people, that's when you have to reevaluate. Because like I said, people will try to busy, I'm doing this, I'm doing that. But in all honesty, like you said, time will be made. Time will be made. Not for any relationship. But it made me think about dating and things like that. And I remember because I've done it too
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
And it's amazing how you can arrive at a place where you thought when you showed up there, emotionally, mentally, and you're like, wait a second, we ain't in the same space. And so I think that's pretty amazing to recognize, because sometimes you show up and you show up vulnerable, and you show up open, and you're like, we weren't marching to the same beat. We weren't moving with the same rhythm
And that's pretty powerful to have that experience, because it just means that your self awareness, your IQ is pretty high when it comes to the way you connect. And most people go through life, and by the time they realize that their connections were superficial and their relationships were just an amuse, then they're like, oh, maybe I should do something different and stop spinning wheels. So, hey, thanks for that