I can pinpoint toxic real quick. Love. I think it's hard. I think people are like, well, back in the day, they loved them like, no, back in the day, they had no choice. Back in the day, a lot of women had no choice but to sit and stay with people. Back in the day, they didn't have therapy and they didn't have all these avenues of learning about yourself and learning what your love language is and your attachment style is