@iamdeeshields
Dee Shields
@iamdeeshields · 3:59

Get out of folks way so they can f*xK up!

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To #enable or try to #prevent bad things to happen to others is a toxic way to live!

@Luchianna
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 3:02
When it comes to my adult son, that's a little different. That's a little different. Although they're grown and they have to make their own choices and their decisions, I'm just not going to leave them out there to figure out the hard way. That's just not me. I raised them to do better, to know better, and for the most part they have done exactly that. But I invest in people, but not at the expense of myself
@iamdeeshields
Dee Shields
@iamdeeshields · 0:55

@Luchianna

And when in a crunch, they come to me and it's not toxic in nature, and I really agree to invest in people and then, like you said, not to go beyond myself. So definitely that's the thing for those who are continuously toxic in nature, in the family who continue to come to you and they want your advice, but they're not following it and they're more manipulating things out of you, like your help financially or physically
@iamdeeshields
Dee Shields
@iamdeeshields · 1:02

@Ajoi

So in learning who those people are and if they're still within your circle, that's when you have to say, you know what, no, I'm moving out the way you can continuously using me, you know, and that's the lesson that I had to learn. Like, no, I'm just going to have to go ahead and let you mess up because I keep coming to save the day. And as I do so, it just becomes more and more toxic in nature
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