As the sun hits my face and I swing in the backyard, I'm thinking of 35 years of utter disrespect, utter disregard, just not caring. And my one question that comes in my mind after looking at the marriage retreat question and your quizzes on if you match and are you compatible? And what happens when an affair happens and you do your Google search and you go down the rabbit hole. And the one question that stood out in my mind was the question I'm going to ask Alan