I've heard some couples say that being around their partner reveals the ugly side of them, and they don't like that. And unfortunately, this can lead to divorce. Because if you feel that the person that you're with is only bringing out the negatives in you, they're turning you into something that is not good and that you don't like to see in a mirror, then that's an important question to ask. Are the both of you there revealing the best of yourselves to each other?
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:24
Those of us who are single. And there's this idea that people are single, especially as they age, because something's wrong with them and they don't know how to get along with people, which could be a possibility. But the overarching assumption is that's why people are single, because you ain't got nobody. Because something must be wrong with you. Right? But if we assume that something's wrong with people who are not married, then we're assumed
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 2:49
And as I mentioned before, I'm a happily married woman. However, I'm always going to champion for those who are single or prefer single life because I don't like the stigma that's attached to people who prefer to be single or whatever. It doesn't mean that you're a bad person. You just have not found the one yet, or the one hasn't found you, or you're just enjoying your life as is
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:43
I am sure there are some things that annoy him, but we loved each other enough to try to be together and to love each other and to get married. We didn't get married for just one reason. We got married because we really, truly wanted to be together for the rest of our lives. So this is beneficial for me. It helps me reflect. It helps me keep trying and calm down and know that it's okay. It's okay
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 3:12
But that's the thing. In any relationship, it's two people coming from two different backgrounds trying to make it work because they love one another. So I do commend you for wanting to stick with this, even though you mentioned it's your third marriage. Sometimes it's a learning ground. It can hurt going through different relationships. It definitely can hurt it make us better, and we see things much clearer