Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica ¡ 4:04
Why Are WOMEN Promoting THIS?!đŹYOUNG Ladies, IGNORE the INTERNET For a While, PLEASE
He could be bringing you HIV, STD's, or he could be creating side babies. That's not love and respect. If anything, he is showing that he doesn't value you and that he possibly hate your guts. That's the only thing I can. There's no way. There's no way this side of the moon that these ladies believe what they're saying. Someone needs to pull the plug from their wifi, okay? They don't need to have Internet
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 ¡ 4:42
Hey, Erica, this is a great topic. I think the reason why, and men are promoting the same idea, too, that they can cheat on their wives or significant others and still not love them any less. I think the reason why this idea is being promoted is because men view sex as a physical need versus an emotional need, like we women do. And so I believe that's why men have the ability to compartmentalize sex in a way where they can fulfill their sexual need
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica ¡ 3:13
And I think guys are intimidated by women like that because, you know, you have women now who are just saying I'm not giving my heart, and then have it smashed to pieces because he found someone younger, better, firmer toner or whatever. And I'm just. No, no, I'm not going to give my heart. It's okay. So, yeah, the tides have changed. Thank you so much for your contribution, Tanya
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 ¡ 3:51
You know, you don't even have to be that physically attractive. Just say what men love to hear, and your stock will automatically go up because they like to hear women agreeing with male ideology. So that's another reason why this is a dangerous idea to promote, because you're also sending the message that if you really want to attract a man, just be in agreement with the things that men desire. Just be in agreement with it
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica ¡ 2:33
Don't go against the grain. Go with it. It does make life a lot simpler. And there are people who are polyamorous who live like this. They don't mind having multiple partners, and their partners know right out the gate that this is how it is. So I'm glad you brought that perspective here. It reminds me of a short ebook that I read. I think I spoke about it on here last year called the sexy part of the Bible, where this woman, she
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk ¡ 4:03
Hey, you know, this is an interesting topic because I find that it's all ages that do it. Our grandmothers did it, some people's mamas did it, our friends do it. They. It's just kind of like a settling factor for me. It's kind of like he coming home with me, he ain't staying home with you, you know, and sometimes people, what is not seen is with what they don't count
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica ¡ 2:49
You know, unless someone is in a polygamous relationship or you have an open relationship or you know that your person is poly, you know, your partner is polyamorous. Outside of all of that, it's betrayal. And I think that's why it's the most discussed topic. And you have some women who are willing to put up with it because like you said, keetha, you know, some women feel, hey, he comes back to me. I'm not losing him for nothing