Get rid of all anger, bitterness, rage, slander, along with every form of malice, forgiving each other just as Christ forgave you. Your vows in marriage is supposed to be for life. You say, I take you to be my husband, my wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poor, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish. Oye