And a frustrated child can soon get depressed if the comparison continues. Coming back to marks. Marks, do not define your child's capabilities. Your child does not have to be the topper or always be in the top five or top ten to prove his or her potential. Your child's success in life depends on your child's attitude and enthusiasm towards life. We have to work on those and encourage our children. Your children could be artists, they could be scientists, teachers, footballers
Ranjana ma'am, I think you have chosen a very important topic and I totally agree with what you said. We all have been through that stage where people ask and many other things. So thank you so much for this. Well, I hope people more parents listen to it and they get the gist of what you are saying. Thank you so much. Take care. Best wishes, Jamaatari
Rakesh Kumar
@RakeshKumar2023 · 1:49
Right. So this kind of comparison, this kind of examination, these kind of expectations should not be done by parents. This is very harmful for the growth of our children. So this should be stopped and counseling is needed, especially the counseling should be given to parents. That is very, very important. So, a great topic you have decided to talk about. I appreciate you for that
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:14
Thank you for your support, Kadambari. And it's so nice to hear from you. And I'm so glad that you agree with what I have shared. Have a lovely week ahead. Jai Matati
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:56
We are actually comparing all the children expecting everybody to climb that tree and everybody would not be able to do that. Thank you so much for sharing your views. Have a lovely week ahead. Bye
Swati Sharma
@Swatiselflove · 3:18
And the child keeps all those emotions so very suppressed within himself. Many a times he's not even allowed to express himself fully before his pairing because there's so many restrictions around him and we start setting so many those standards of measurements around him all the time and we start measuring his worth against those standards. We start raising those bars as he starts growing up
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:44
Thank you so much, Swati. I'm so glad that you agree with this swell and with my thoughts. And thank you so much for your kind words. I'm really, really very grateful for all the appreciation and support that I get from you. And yes, you're so right about how Thomas Edison's mother was able to motivate her child and who the school had written off. And it was her motivation that made him so famous later on in life