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Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 1:33

You need a proper Closure

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Hi, this is your friend Anwel Wisher, Ranjana Kamo. And today I wanted to discuss some thoughts with you. I wanted to talk about cliffhangers, enclosures and the need for closures. I'm sure most of us feel frustrated when a book or a movie ends with a cliffhanger. I can never appreciate a book that does not give a proper closure to the story

#closure #cliffhanger #ghosting #selfhelp

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Prashant Kumar
@smileypkt · 1:25

#book

Thank you so much, ma'am, for this wonderful swell. And I firmly believe that a writer must complete the story in a single book. Like, you cannot cheat the curiosity of a reader. Whenever I read something and I don't get the full meaning of that chapter or the book, it affects my other tasks. In a day, like when I am reading, I keep thinking about that story or that book
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Neha Dondapati
@neha_97 · 1:22
It is easier to look at the next chapter in our life compared to when we are just abruptly left like that, or it just ended abruptly, let's say, because then we tend to hang on to that and wonder why it happened in the first place without knowing the reason why it happened. We are often stuck in those same zone, you know, in that same energy for quite a long time
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@Swell · 0:15

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aamna singh
@aamy · 2:29

#relationships #confessions #mentalwellness @Gamechanger

Hi, Ranjana, how are you? I so agree that closures are very important. A, in the first go for me, peace of mind, because if a closure does not happen, whether it's with a person, situation in life, general books, whatever, if it does not happen, you keep thinking about it, you know, and the worst is that it takes away the peace of mind
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Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:24

@smileypkt

Thank you so much, Prasanth. I'm so glad that you agree with what I have to say. And you're so right in saying that a writer must satisfy the curiosity of the reader. And should not cheat the reader by, you know, not completing the book. I completely agree with you, and thank you so much for getting back on this. Have a lovely week ahead. Bye
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Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:33

@neha_97

Thank you so much, Neha, for getting back on this. And I'm so glad that you agree, and as you rightly said, that closure is very important in all aspects of life. Otherwise, we'll keep wondering what happened and what was the reason for things as to end abruptly or what could have happened or would not have happened. There are so many what ifs and maybes, and that really keeps us confused. Thank you so much for sharing. Have a lovely evening. Bye
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Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:32

@aamy

Thank you so much. And I'm glad that you shared your perspective with us. And, yes, there are two sides to the coin, but as you rightly mentioned, that, you know, closure is something that we always would look forward to because that gives us peace of mind and closes the chapter, you know, very clean. In a very clean manner. So thank you so much for sharing your views. Have a lovely evening. Bye
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Sarita pramod
@pocketofstories · 1:01
Hi Ranjanaji. I really loved your piece on this one about getting a closure. Yeah, I agree on the cliffhanger part. It's annoying, but I guess sometimes the story is so lengthy and long that publishers would want the authors to break it into a series. I don't think any of the author would like to have the flow of, you know, the writing interrupted
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Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:27

@pocketofstories

Thank you so much for sharing your views and I'm glad that you agree with what I have to say. And definitely, you know, if you don't get closure, it does frustrate us. So it is so important to get closure, whether it is in a story or in real life. And like you mentioned, that we can try, but yeah, after that, we have to move on. Thank you so much for sharing your views. Have a good evening. Goodbye
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Swati Sharma
@Swatiselflove · 3:44
That's very important. And we didn't keep those emotions bottled up within ourselves because whatever you keep bottled up, whatever you fail to express in true sense in life, it certainly is going to harm you some way. It's certainly going to explode one day. So why? To keep that bomb ticking in your mind somewhere. So it's very important to give a closure, and yes, like you talked about, that fail to give any kind of closure to their storyline
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Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:37

@Swatiselflove

Thank you, Swati. It's always lovely to hear from you. And you always take the time to respond on all my swells. And that is something which is creditable. I really appreciate all your support. Yes, you're right in saying that, you know, if we don't get the closure, then we keep forming assumptions and we remain confused as to what happened, and it leads to some kind of anxiety as well. Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful perspectives on this topic
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Rakesh Kumar
@RakeshKumar2023 · 1:51
I totally agree with you madam. These days these kind of movies are also being released that next part will come and they just leave the ending part, the climax of the movie and they just leave some kind of connection so that people can get a kind of excitement and they should be ready to watch the next part also
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Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:32

@RakeshKumar2023

Thank you so much, Rakesh, for reverting on this, and I'm glad you agree. And you're absolutely right. You know, when it's. You know, if something is left halfway, then it's. It's not the. You know, we don't actually look forward to it. We feel let down and disappointed. So I think what the creators are trying to create does not really happen, and it works in exactly the opposite way
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Shubhangi Mithal
@shubhangimithal · 4:43
It's okay. They're not talking to you. They are not anymore in your life. You are thinking a lot. What happened? They are not. It's not closeness. You are having cup of tea every second day you are going to market and suddenly they stopped communicating with you. Okay. You. You have overcome from that. You have to move on. Suddenly when they need something, they will message you for that. How to do this, you know
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Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:56

@shubhangimithal

Thank you, Shubangi. Thank you for sharing your perspective, and I'm glad you agree. And out of the blue, you know, you get a message or a phone call or. Absolutely yes. Or those we don't know, but yes, we need closure. Definitely, we need closure. So, yeah, I hope we get closure every time something happens in life. Thank you for sharing your views. Take care. Bye
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Mansee Tewari
@Unknowngal · 4:59
On the other hand, when you say about closures, about life, I would say closures for me are learning, you know, and self closures are very important thing. So closures give you clarity on what went wrong or what went right for you. And closure from within is something which is very important. So there are many scenarios where, you know, you do not get closures because closures can only happen when both the parties have a mutual consent to talk
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Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:19

@Unknowngal

Thank you so much for getting back on this and sharing your views, your perspectives on what closures mean to you. And yes, you shared some nice insights on the topic. And thank you for taking the time. Take care. Bye
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