That is, let us start complementing the positive attributes in other people's personalities. And we will soon see that others will also start seeing the positives in us. Let us make a beginning by creating this mirror effect and I'm sure some will follow soon. The second tip is what I call self reveal. And why do I do that? Because we must accept who we are with all our attributes
Lakshmi Sharath
@Lakshmisharath · 1:12
Often you find this in your own friends and family circles, sometimes the so called people who are close to you, colleagues. And one thing I have learned is that I draw very clear boundaries. I told myself much, much early in my days that I don't need validation from outside. And yes, I listen to advice if it's genuine, but otherwise, I do what I think is right
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:21
You. Thank you for stopping by. And thank you for sharing your beautiful advice. And I'm so glad that you agree with me. And it's nice to know about the boundaries, which are so very important for all of us. Thank you so much. Have a lovely day. Bye
Challa Sri Gouri
@challasrigouri · 1:29
So I always believe that this fear of judgment will never allow you to move forward and to become the person that you dreamt to be. So to overcome the fear of being judged, first thing is we should stop looking at the don't look at yourself from others perspective. Look at yourself from your own perspective. Understand what you're going through and don't pass any kind of comments. Don't make any kind of gossips on others what you might be feeling
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:15
Thank you, Gauri, for stopping by and for sharing your beautiful insights. I am so glad that you liked this podcast and took the time to talk to us. Have a lovely evening. Bye
Kadambari Gupta
@kadambarigupta · 1:22
I would also at times that, oh God, she ate so much. Oh God, look at what she is bearing and all that. Because I have why should I lie that I haven't judged people? And I think also at times, people say such negative words and devastating things that we need to hear it out from the one ear and take it out from the other one. Only then things will get better. Otherwise, we will always be judged
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:41
Thank you, Kadambari, for stopping by. I agree with you that, yes, we all judge each other. And when people judge us, we definitely feel very hurt. And judgment is not going being judged is not going to stop at all. But, yes, we can change how we look at it and how we I'm glad that you were able to manage you, your emotions. That's a good thing. And definitely, if you're not judging anyone, that is something beautiful
Jagriti Kataria
@Niks.me · 3:57
I would like to highlight this thing here that whenever I do judge in case if I'm judging or if I am pointing out or giving my suggestion or whatever it is right. I felt that key. What I am doing I have realized I have attendance kind of a realization in me. I have felt it not that about the judging one, that okay. But we always remove this kind of prestigio typing word. Okay
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:48
But I really like that when you said that you are conscious that if you are judging someone, then you stop your tough and you realize that you've done it. And that's a very big thing, a very good aspect of your personality. And I would love to hear more about your feedback on this topic. And I look forward to yours. Well and I wish you all the best in life. Take care. Have a lovely day. Bye
Himanshi Thakur
@GreyMatter · 5:00
I think that also enables our survival as a social animal. So, for instance, somebody who's a t two taller or who's not into consuming intoxicants would not want to hang out with somebody who does. So that's just an example. The case could be contrary to, but I'm just exemplifying. But it's problematic when we using that innate trait of judging somebody judgmentalism to demean other people, to make their lives miserable
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 1:20
Thank you so much, himanshi, for taking the time to respond. And I really like what you mentioned about people having several layers and not to make a judgment based on just a simple interaction or probably just knowing not much about a person. That is actually the crux of this whole thing, that a person. You hardly know the person at all, because it's like, obviously you're judging somebody at the spur of a moment without knowing anything about the person at all
Life Gyaan đź‘Ľ
@chaithraprabhu · 0:25
Hey, Ranjana. Ma'am. Thank you for the invite and for bringing up this topic. I don't understand why people are so interested in judging someone without knowing the paths they walk. The best method I follow is I close my ears to all the judgments and I walk my path. I just do what I feel good for me. And I never listen to those judgment at all. Thank you, ma'am
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:16
You. Thank you so much for getting back to me. And I think what you're doing is the best that you can do, and it's great that you shared that with us, because it would help a lot of people. Thank you so much. Have a lovely day. Bye
Swati Sharma
@Swatiselflove · 2:00
Hi Ranjana. You know, what I feel is that this fear of getting judged and this tendency of judging the other people around is a kind of vicious cycle that we all get caught up in and there just seems to be just no escape from it. Or should I say that there is some kind of social conditioning on our part that we have set those standards?
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:28
You. Thank you so much for sharing your feedback. And I really appreciate your views, because I think what you're saying is so very right. And definitely this is a vicious cycle, and, yes, it's so difficult to get through this. Yes. But our upbringing can definitely do wonders here. So thank you so much. And I love listening to your podcast as well. Thank you. Thank you. Have a lovely day. Bye