Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:52
I need to Date Myself, more.
And I looked a little weird, but it was fun. I want to do that again. It's getting a little harder to find theaters near me, though. That much is true. A lot of the theaters that I went to as a kid have now been converted to various other means of entertainment. One especially has become a bar, a club, which saddens my soul. And I never want to go in there, because for me, the nostalgia will always be theater
In fact, I do this a lot as somebody who's autistic and neurodivergent and whatever the case is. And I find that I'm doing that even more now, more so than ever, being here in California, that I don't know too many people, that I'm going out dating California and stuff. And I'm kind of at that space where I'm like, where do I see this going with California? It's almost been two and a half, three years
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 2:54
So again, although I did have a great date last night, I need to start having some with myself. Time for myself, but that was time for myself, but it was just in a different way that didn't involve all of my kitties and whatnot. And yes, I am a single father. I'm not in a relationship. That would be awkward if I was on a date, even though I was in a relationship
Swell Team
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@Isoellen · 4:57
Or do you think it is a topic that has been a marketing topic that has been put forth by the self care product industry? I'd love to hear your thoughts on that. And there you go. I also listened to Deveraux of your other swells this morning. Thank you so much. You put a smile on my face. I enjoyed them a lot. Bye
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:49
I mean, maybe a certain personality may promote it as a way to get people to be more into their health than other personalities, but I would have to do a bit more research on that. But, yeah, like somebody like me, I neglect myself quite a bit. And I guess, unlike you, I don't really consider ordering food like doordash and shit like that as self care. Yeah, I guess I'm feeding myself, but I'm at home most of the time
Isoellen Writes
@Isoellen · 1:00
Is there a personality type that overextends themselves versus a personality type that is always bent on self preservation? I guess. I don't know. I was just theorizing, too. Anyway, so. Being a little bit ridiculous. Thank you so much for responding. Bye
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 1:28
Oh, yeah, that's what communication is for, right? To be able to understand each other better. And yeah, I had no, I never watched Oprah a day in my life, so I would have never known about it being on there. But I'm pretty sure you could trace it back, probably even earlier than Oprah. Maybe it didn't have the name care, but the idea probably has been in place since the dawn of mankind