Finley Ave
@finnave · 1:31
Where does the love go?
But I'm just curious. Like, monogamous polyamorous, people, whatever. Like, what do you identify as? And do you still have feelings for people like that? Or it's that weird
And it has in beautiful ways. In fact, I found ways in my life to experience love through collaboration and to turn sexual humors into creative activities and to channel that desire. But I'm also in a space of being like, I don't know if we're supposed to be with one person. Our whole life seems off about it. It doesn't feel like I'm going to have integrity with that. But that's only because I find things beautiful. And I'm curious
Finley Ave
@finnave · 2:03
I think there's so much growth that can happen in each of the connections and relationships that you intertwine yourself with, and I think it's a lot harder to get that in a monogamous relationship relationship. In my experience
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:48
And I have thought in my mind that I could do, like, a Poly relationship, but I realized I couldn't do it because for me, it's like dating. I could date multiple people, sure, but we would all know that I'm dating, and if I was to be exclusive with someone, I would feel weird still dating people. So for me, I don't think I could be in Poly
Jared Bogda
@JCB07 · 2:20
Hey, Finley, thank you so much for posting this. I think this resonates with a lot of people, especially in the more current times of acceptance and understanding. And just what we've learned over the years is about monogamous relationships as well as marriages and those types of partnerships. And I think that you're on an interesting track, and I think that it's obviously not for everyone
Finley Ave
@finnave · 2:50
The lady you mentioned that or girlfriend you mentioned that brought the idea of an open relationship to you because that takes a lot of courage and that just shows how much respect she has for you and for the relationship. She didn't want to lose it if she brought it up, she would have just went and cheated or went and broke up with you, if that's what it was, if that didn't hold such an importance to her. And it is shifting
Finley Ave
@finnave · 1:18
I guess I subscribe to quite a lot myself considering I am a trans non binary queer that is also interested in polyamory. So why not throw everything in the poll that you can
Hey there, Finley. Well, your question is really interesting. Like, it really intrigued me. I've heard about the concept of polyamory. Well, I don't identify as polyamorous, but I don't feel like the people I have been with till this day. I obviously don't love them now because I don't love them. I don't have those feelings, semantic feelings
Finley Ave
@finnave · 1:53
But, yeah, she's the one that dumped me, and that's where I'm at. But yeah, it can be hard to differentiate for me, at least the different types of love, the different expressions of love, like understanding the difference between Platonic and romantic. So, yeah, love can definitely be confusing, to say the least
Yes, it's so true. Love is really complicated and relationships are difficult. But to understand what you really want from your yourself or from others is really helpful. So I hope that you figure out what you really are looking for. And I hope you find happiness with whoever you deal with
Finley Ave
@finnave · 1:02
But I think as far as the romantic level, I'm not prepared for that until I've really come to terms with all of the aspects and layers of myself as an individual. So I appreciate you. I hope you're having a beautiful day, night, whatever you might call it. Yeah. Ave all the love going around