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orrin carter
@FindingChubbz · 4:19
Showing Up as Yourself…no matter who it offends
And one day, one session, my therapist told me, orrin, it seems like you never show up as yourself. And I said, okay, well, what does that mean? And she's kind of just like, well, you have all these wonderful gifts. You like to do all these wonderful things, but you're not doing it for the sake of the home. You don't like being inside, but you stay inside. You love to travel, but you're not traveling
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Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 1:54
Hi. This is renee. I just wanted to take a moment to say that I appreciate your openness and sharing this. I, too, am going through some of the same things and I'm finding myself again, which is beautiful and amazing, but it seems like when you're caught up in it and you're just trying to give so much to someone that everybody's happy because you don't want to argue, you don't want to rock the boat, so to speak