Nevertheless, I'm going to attempt. So here's my thought. Suppose there is someone who is the very jealous, the very possessive kind by nature. And this very trait might have led to failed relationships. And everyone might have been quick enough to call them toxic, which might have made this person wary or scared of giving themselves a chance of another relationship. And then there is someone who craves for their partner to be jealous, to be obsessively, possessive about them
And it's so true. And from the example you said, right, like in one relationship, that possessiveness could be seen as suffocating to one person because their need is for space, while in another situation that could be seen as the right amount of attention because that's another person's needs in another relationship. So it's almost like the right fit. Who is your right fit and who helps you grow in the right manner and nourish you in the right manner, the right combination of elements
MindOverMatter
@DTalks · 1:45
And how can anybody overtly possessive and be in a healthy relationship? Or how can somebody want someone overtly possessive? So that is what triggered my thought, and I thought, let me share it with my swell family. And I'm so happy, Candy, that you saw the intent that I was putting forward. Yes, I understand you're rambling, because, hey, I do that, too, a lot
preethy uthup
@peeli · 4:04
Hello. Hi dear. I think you have put it in the right perspective and the right way and I totally am in zing with you. Like the part wherein one and one becomes two and that two can be the ideal relationship also. Ah, there are two sides of this coin because sometimes, what do I say? It can really be a constriction for the other to grow up and limit the other person because of the possessiveness or it can help them to grow also
sainath er
@Lifeexplorer · 1:43
It's just that one's tolerance and one's ability to accept is very relative and very need based. Circumstances might swing people's moods and thought processes. So I thought I would just share these few points on this. Happy to discuss, follow. Cheers
MindOverMatter
@DTalks · 1:09
So I'm absolutely in alignment to your views. But like I said, I the highlight or the word here that I'm looking for is equilibrium. And that's how I look at it. Yeah, thanks for your response and cheers. Bye
Aishani Chatterjee
@Aishani · 3:52
And while we as human beings are also very quick to judge, we might judge people for wanting something that we believe is not worth pursuing. But it's the human mind and the heart wants what it wants, right? It's a dark side in terms that it's very shadowed. And like I said, people shy away from acknowledging it, from acknowledging this fact that this exists
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Shashank Singh
@Jordan1 · 1:10
So, yeah, basically it's a very subjective term to think about because thing is that we should have a flexible mindset and we should not kind of really be rigid in our minds. It's all about the outlook and exposure, I think. Yeah, it was triggering. But on a positive note, because I think you have a very open mind. Kudos to you to put out such fresh and unique cells