It is just like the right and the left part of your brain. So when you have a right and left available to you, make use of it. It is not going to stress anybody, but it is only going to relieve your stress. That is what companionship and partnership is. So don't shy away or don't fear to share your challenges with your partner because women understand. Most women do. And when you communicate it well then I think all of them will someday or the other