And after a while of sitting and just thinking about it, I had to think about my previous relationship, my marriage and what I said I didn't want. And I said I didn't want to feel like I didn't matter. I wanted to be visible. I said that I wanted to be with someone who was productive and that had goals and wanted to work together on things. I wanted to be with someone that I could take trips with which I had that back then
So let us not deny the fact that you are courageous enough to not only love, but to manifest love in that relationship. The only thing is, you don't have any control over how the other person will receive it. And that's the part, at least for me, that makes me the most uncomfortable, because it's like, do unto others as you would have them do unto you, right? You love yourself
Jynnia Lee
@LeeJynn · 1:01
But the action is where it's at because we get a lot of lip service, and after a while, we get tired of hearing the lip service, and we need to see the action. And if the action isn't there, that's the substance. If the substance isn't there, then what's love got to do with it, right? So more power to you on your journey. Praying for him on his journey, too. Maybe one day he'll wake up
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:09
And I guarantee you there are going to be some women who are going to be listening to this. Well, and they're going to realize that, you know what? If Kitha chose herself, I can choose myself. It's going to be okay. And they can choose themselves. They can get out of those relationships that are not in their best interest, that are not helping them to become better, and that are not really fulfilling what they need. You know what I mean?
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 3:33
It was time for me long ago, but now I'm trying to do everything, knowing what I want with my life. And sometimes we think people in, they're not, and other times it comes back around. But the funny part is we already came back around. So, um, it wasn't a situation to where either one person is feeling one way and one person is not. It was mutual
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 2:26
Haley, thanks so much for responding and being supportive of me because sometimes we don't have supporters, you know, sometimes we don't have people who understand where we're coming from. And I do hope that I can help someone else by, you know, being vulnerable and speaking about different things and being honest with my feelings
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:12
That's how I am. But I want him to be friends. I want to remain friends and everything, but I don't think I can do it. I don't think I can do it because there's going to always be that crossing of the lines, especially when you curve somebody deeply. And I'm just not at the stage to where I don't care