And I've learned, I just recently learned here within the last year, how to turn it off. And what I mean by that is not to get rid of it, but how to separate my emotions from other people. Oftentimes I would feel angry or feel sad and I really wouldn't know why sometimes. And then I would sit there and I would wait
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 4:20
Hi. Fellow empath here. Yes, I am definitely an empaths, actually. I'm always saying this. I'm like a self proclaimed empath, and that's just literally part of my identity at this point. And I want to say that it's a great thing, but at the same time, it's tiring. It's burdens them. Sometimes I wish I wasn't like that, but then I'm like, you know what? No, I am like this
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 4:40
Well, I had a little therapy way back and I had mentioned that I think something's different and explained that the things that I feel are so strong that in talking to everyone else, I don't get the sense that they feel as powerfully as I feel, especially the sadness and the anger. And like you, it was sometimes when it wasn't my own. And so I then start having things brought to my attention
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 3:30
And everything you said was like, yes, because I will give every excuse in the world to people based on their upbringing, things that they've been through, because I know what I've been through, you know what I mean? Some of that it's sad that they went through what they went through, but they are who they are because they're choosing to be who they are, if that makes sense
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 2:04
And so that's what's been really difficult for me. And I also am in therapy and learning boundaries and things like that. It's like, for me, you have to cross the line multiple times before I'm finally like, I'm done. And when I'm done, usually I'm not going to announce that I'm done. I'm just going to let you figure it out because you're smart, I would hope
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 0:29
Same, girl, same. It's what we do. It's what we do. But when you get to where you have control over your abilities and know how to deal with them girl, the power. Like I said, we're here for a reason. So just feed yourself all you can find out. And yeah, it still sucks and hurts when somebody hurts us. But we have ways to to help us heal from it, too. We are healers, so
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 1:12
You. Hey, thanks so much for replying to my post. You're definitely right that people are beginning to recognize it more, but with the recognization of it, I find that there are people who are really not empaths that are placing theirselves in that category. And those of us who are empaths know that it's not an easy job. It's really not. It's not something that we choose
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:32
I'm letting this get to me, why am I letting it get to me? Is something else going on? And sometimes I can't even pinpoint it. But then later on, a friend of mine will contact me or to be something going on in the world that is going to hit the news or it's happening in my community. And then I'm like, oh, wow, I was feeling it already. Sometimes you can be somewhere and maybe someone's, a couple is arguing
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 1:23
I've got a dog right now that will stomp his feet, and I'm not even kidding, for his treats. Like, he will literally stomp stomp like a little brat. It's so cute. But, yeah, I love that we linked up here, and I do hope to have many more conversations because we have to be there for each other, and we have to lift each other up because of those downtimes, right? So love seeing another empath here, so I appreciate
Pasju Kubert
@PasjuRelatively · 4:43
And also she helped me fine tune my energies in terms of union psychology and analysis, and she was a union licensed union analyst and aerobic doctor. And so she helped tune my dials at a point when I was in the most abject darkness. And it was when I had found out that I had cancer the first time, which took me to such an incredibly intense place as an adopted child whose biological father died of cancer three months before I was born
Pasju Kubert
@PasjuRelatively · 4:55
You. Okay. So I was speaking about my biological father and my biological mother and sorry. See, I realize now to to you it doesn't seem like any time has passed because this is what I have to be on here, whereas I took a few moments. So the Alpha and the Omega being being taken to a place where you have no connection to a stable through line. Yeah
Pasju Kubert
@PasjuRelatively · 5:00
We can let them go and sit back and observe them and get to know everything about them and know that it doesn't affect us and to watch and they will try to take something and be like okay, well no, but it doesn't matter because the things don't matter. What they take don't matter. The pain that they give is not our pain. It is something that is able to be looked at
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 3:00
That really worked for me because I was able to have some sort of kind of like control of the situation and I didn't have to let her cross over me or I didn't have to let her treat me that way, even though she was my mother. There was definitely some boundaries that had to be put into place. So yes, I understand everything that you said. And as I discussed, just keep sharing what you had to say. Keep sharing those things and keep prospering
Pasju Kubert
@PasjuRelatively · 1:13
It's the culmination of two years of love and support and giving and the empathic connection that in this case, an artist has with their muse, their love or their companion. How far that can go, how close do people can be. It's been a very difficult thing, and thank you, and please keep listening as I go. My stories are deep, but they're always leading or trying through the darkness to the light. And the resolution of understanding the point of the story is where