Why do women get "crazy" when they are crushing on a guy?
People that are secure within themselves don't have to change anything about themselves. And that is typically what we do when we chase after men. Think about it. If a man is not giving you the attention that you want, you're going to obsess over it and you're going to get crazy over it. And subconsciously, you might not know why
You know who you are as an individual, who you are as a person, what the things that you like, your morals, your values. And once you can accept those things, embrace them, and then be confident in what it is that you bring to the table, you are going to attract what you need to attract. No chasing involved. Because what a lot of people don't understand is it almost has to be the other person's idea. You know what I'm saying?