But in relationships, you want to sustain the other person without giving too much of yourself up and vice versa. So how can we be good at relationships if we don't treat ourselves well? If the relationship we have with ourselves are off or we are under serving ourself, how can we 100% serve another person? So I don't care if she is beautiful, I don't care if she has a lot of money, I don't care if she's driving or got a mansion